individuation – Synchronicity is the Source of Consciousness

March 30, 2024March 30, 2024

A Time Paradigm Shift

I’m working toward a global wide, time paradigm shift. No institution, state, church, family, or corporation should control your time, which is your body. That said, many people are used to being told what to do and feel comfy and dependent on an authority running their lives and health.

This is dangerous as they are using you for their agenda. There is no altruism toward you as a parent would be with a child. You should control your body and your time. But you will have to get organized and get used to one of the apps that is available. The app will be able to move seamlessly between past to present, future back to present, and allow you to spend the majority of your mental awareness in NOW.

The ultimate goal with my work is not complicated, but it is broad in scope, as in making it available to the entire planet of 8 billion people. I’m still finishing my assessment, data entry, and analysis regarding how the real matrix of DNA evolution works and our epigenetic role in it so that the app programming will be correct.

It is 98% in our hands. Humans are far from realizing they have 98% power over their own body and mind but in fact they do if they learn to self-exist, self-generate and focus on making sure they are happy and healthy so they can share it with others as they wish. You can’t give from an empty well.

Once I have that all figured out, every single person on the planet will have an app or maybe something similar to a “fit bit” called a “time bit” that will allow them to create their individual synchronicity matrix in their own circle of TRUE TIME based on what they came to the planet to do or learn. When applied correctly, it will eventually eliminate aging in the body because your body will be following your true time, not someone else’s. But it will sync up with whoever you are supposed to be interacting with in true time. How it manifests will be the magic.

Our minds do all of that now, but it’s not balanced. Two-thirds of time is left out; future into present and the present. Most people do not think about the future or the present moment. They continue to rehash, talk about, and feel the past as well as worship it. It creates a time warp. Our planet is in the condition it is because time is out of balance, meaning our bodies are out of balance with the dimensions in the cosmos.

Eventually, this accurate time will need to be synchronized with all of our tools, computers, vehicles, and anything that is digital or runs on a computer because most of us focus our minds on all the of the tools we use. We’re very attached to our phones and computers, which is only a problem if the frequency it runs on is 12:60 binary code, which is the case. I’m working on expanding the code as well, applying 13:20 to it.

There are a mountain of inventions we use to make our lives easier so that we have more leisure or enjoyable time rather than work like a slave for money only to have the majority of it heisted ny government taxes and greedy corporations. Time is not money. Time is LIFE.

It will also finally be the foundation of a real healthcare system that is attuned to your personal destiny, evolution, and body line-up of amino acid proteins. We are not a gentrified species, but individuals who are diverse as all species of life on earth are diversified. The sound in the magnetosphere achieves that and music we hear. It changes our physical frequency.

It will probably take me the rest of my life to see it come to fruition but I would like my last two books to be done and tested and the app being created within two years while the world burns from 2024 to 2026.

Time will tell.

July 15, 2023

How to Deal With Your Anxiety

Your feelings hang in time, past and future, in your etheric body. That programs your DNA. Just think about NOW and ask for what you want and need, right down the center of your body, and you’ll be fine.

Generalized anxiety is epidemic right now. I had two patients cancel this week because they couldn’t leave the house. It’s not good for them and it’s not good for business.

Small business is taking a hit in this new society that is falling apart, but I’m not anxious about it. Lightworkers have been looking forward to it. I know there is income out there, and some will come my way because I offer an indispensable service; PEACE. Reiki clears the etheric body, which is old negative feelings and new negative feelings about the future.

You’re able to release past and future memories and obsessions that hang in your aura if you do really want to feel better. I encourage and teach meditation in the center of your body, the brain, and spinal energy magnetized. It’s not difficult.

But your mind must accept that you are more than a flesh and blood body to get aligned. The 3D clenching is the cause of anxiety right now because we’re evolving forward, and our minds are expanding to include universal realities such as a vast inhabited universe with species who look like us mostly, and hang out here.

I will admit that I don’t go out where there are many people milling around, but it’s because I don’t like expending the extra energy in my etheric body to keep my defenses up. That, and when everyone obeyed media marching orders in March 2020, I lost faith in humanity. I haven’t regained it…yet. I never obeyed, and I thrived. I am stronger and heallthier than before, and I’m glad we’re going forward.

Maybe you’d have less anxiety if you stopped doing as you’re told by others and media. Center in your body. Listen to your breathing. I use my time constructively at home to meditate and remote view now that the nefarious are doubled down on their destructive ways toward humanity. It’s what I enjoy.

You see, in their view, humans are supposed to be slaves for their profit and stop being co-reators and artists. You could say NO to that, flip the bird and feel better. Or, realize that they aren’t going to win. The earth and humans have been evolving for millions and billions or years. It always changes, but it isn’t going to end.

Being creative, walking, and hanging out with a friend can help, most of all, your best friend, yourself. Be the best friend you’ve always wanted, for yourself.💜 And stop listening to others. Listen to yourself.

March 30, 2023March 30, 2023

How to Deal With Your Anxiety

Generalized anxiety is epidemic right now. I had two patients cancel this week because they couldn’t leave the house. It’s not good for them and it’s not good for business.

September 25, 2019November 16, 2025

Protected: Essay: Heartset; “I love you”

June 20, 2019November 14, 2025

Protected: Prose; “I Love You”

April 14, 2019August 17, 2026

Essay: “I Forgive You”

December 2, 2018December 10, 2025

Time Innovation: Synchronicity- Curtains

curtains at Moms

I’m editing my blog posts (8/31/19) and just noticed this synchronicity. I posted this blog on the curtains on 12/2/18. Look at my post below from 11/18/18 where I blogged about my dream when Spirit put literal pictures in front of me of my Twin Flames Family at Thanksgiving. Then at my Thanksgiving time at my Mom’s, I see the same curtains as his. ! Synchronicity of family Thanksgiving and curtains.

I was just visiting my Mom last week for Thanksgiving and was excited to see her new house. She has an extra room where I slept for three days.

I walked in…and the curtains on the windows were exactly the same print as the curtains on the front windows of my Occult Partner Kin’s house in California. As you may recall I visited there in July, 2018, meeting him for the first time. We just hung out. I even remember photographically etching the pattern in my mind as though something was unconsciously telling me to remember the pattern. I specifically “noted” his curtains.

I was aghast and told my Mom as she helped me bring my things in, that her curtains were the same as Raul’s in California. She said, “That’s impossible. I just picked those up at a garage sale at the old place where I used to live.”

“Mom, it’s the same pattern. Same curtains. Oh my gosh.” What is the meaning of that?

curtains 2 at Mom's

When you’ve met your occult partner kin, all kinds of crazy synchronicities happen to stimulate the release of your self-identification with the subconscious mind. As I’ve said on here before, the subconscious is our GPS system given to us by our birth family, imprinted irrevocably on our minds by our mother between in utero to about age six.

Ok, so, this is my Mother’s room! She picked out the curtains. I guess the question is, who picked out the curtains on the front windows of his house in California?

The message I got from my spiritual guidance team yesterday was, “The two of you have work to do and need to get cracking! Move your vibe to warmth, faith, and love and release fear, the past, and negativity!” I’m stubborn. Your male and female selves become ONE and there is no more subconscious conflict. You both are individuated adults, no longer sitting in emotional choices programmed by your mother. It’s not for everyone but if you have been called to the journey there are major revelations about who you are and who you are not.

When I finally realize that my mother’s projections onto me do not define who I am, it’s “curtains” for my subconscious mind and hopefully for Raul as well.

It was a major synchronicity. There are no coincidences or accidents.

November 25, 2018August 2, 2026

Essay; It’s Nice to Have Someone to Come Home To

Winter Scenes in Moonlight

I wrote this in 2018. It is now August 2026 and I’ve been single since 2016 so I’ve gotten used to just me, the house, the plants, and my work.

We hear people say this all the time, I suppose especially during the holidays. However, I was just out of town at my Mom’s for five days and I was thrilled to come home to the sanctuary I’ve created. I live alone, happily, and my business is here. I’m a quiet meditative person that loves to write and read. It fills me up constantly.

I am the “someone” that I came home to. I have a full life, enjoy my own company and I’m busy as much as I want to be. I did come home to someone; myself. Some people don’t need a mate to be content.

September 23, 2018July 24, 2026

Essay; Do We Really Need to Depend on a Partner Intimately?

Woman on a mountain

It is very true that we are interdependent on one another in the second layer of society; fireman, government workers, health care workers, shop owners, food producers, mail folks, airline pilots and workers, taxi drivers; really an endless list. These are generally people who could be considered strangers or acquaintances in our local area. None of them lives with us. There are literally millions of service workers who are paid to be of service to individuals should they need food or attention. The grocery stores even deliver food to your door if you’re disabled. It’s actually mind-blowing if you think about it. Absolutely anything you could possibly need in terms of material need is now made available to us all over the world, sometimes at the touch of a button by other human beings who are generally happy to be helpful and kind-or appear to be.

But none of that is intimacy. None of those people know us well. They only know us superficially, sometimes less than anyone on social media. But the stats are showing that more and more Americans like living alone especially after their children are grown. It’s also known to actually ruin loving relationships to have children and form a family. I have a theory that the institution of the family is the main reason for gluttony. It looks to me like people who live in a family blow up like a balloon! You’re living so closely with people with whom you function in a prescribed role, that you put on the layers as a defense mechanism. It seems the family is more stressed than ever with a very high divorce rate. Maybe that’s because it’s unnatural but we assume it’s not! There is no disputing that. The main thing that keeps people together is guilt and duty to their children for about ten years. That’s actually not a bad function of negative emotion in this case as children really do thrive on having both parents available if they can at least be civil to one another living in the same household. The child is forming their subconscious mind.

My son is grown and I’m single so I’ve talked to other singles and they all say the same thing; “I miss having someone to talk to.” Well, how much of that talking is defending your ideas to the other person or offloading your emotions that as an adult you’re fully capable of dealing with silently or with a therapist? No two people are exactly alike and one of my least favorite activities is feeling like I have to explain my unusual self to anyone. Just read my writing or ask my patients! My work speaks for itself. Do I really have to talk about it?

I’m a writer so I unload my ideas, observations, and thoughts on the page. If you really want to know me, read what I’ve written. It sort of tells me everything when my friends don’t want to read my book or my blog. It seems to me that when we talk to someone, we’re writing out loud. The other person is the typewriter or computer keyboard and paper receiving your thoughts. Is that fair to do that to someone else verbally? Most people see you the way they need to see you anyway, not the way you really are. It’s a psychological projection but that’s where we are in society. It may even be less than that. They size you up by how you look and your gender and that’s it! I don’t think they care to see much more. When I really like someone, I just want to be with them, hang out, walk, cook food, lay next to them, have sex. I don’t want to talk all the time. Most people I know aren’t secure enough in themselves to silently hang out.

I’m a giver for a living, or a service worker in that I’m a bodyworker and work in healthcare. I take care of people for a living and love my work. I stay quite busy, my phone rings, people ask for my advice a lot and people are in and out all day. I receive much from doing it as well and charge a fair fee so there is reciprocation. In no way do I feel I’m martyring myself during my work.

But do I really want to spend more time having sex with someone or am I happy to have the time to myself to keep working on my body, working out, buying and preparing healthy food, walking, shopping for new clothes that fit me and all the fun that entails? I’m not a child anymore so I’m not physically dependent on being taken care of physically or financially by a partner. No one is! That is a taboo subject. You’ll always get pushback on that one because of the epidemic of dysfunctional parenting. You don’t have to be a slave to any of that though. Playing the victim and being a victim is a profitable industry and shores up the existence of political parties as does being even more abusive to people that have already been victims. It’s a vicious cycle that only the individual can finally free themselves from. It’s not politically correct of me to point that out either.

I guess I’m in an experimental phase, seeing what I can get away with, how much can I make myself happy and not have to talk to anyone. Silence and peace are good. I adore it and I use it to do good work for others.

August 26, 2018July 12, 2026

Essay: Can We Love One Another Without Traditional Bonding?

I wrote this in 2018. Today is 6/26/26.

If you are twin flames or in love, this doesn’t apply.

It depends on how you define bonding which I address below. In spiritual circles, we say, “Love at all times”. So the heart is always open, to everyone and we are protected by Spirit and use our intuition as a guide so there is no fear. We still have to be discerning about how we express love. For indeed, there is no fear in Love. So, that’s the idea. Many highly spiritual people succeed in this so I know it’s possible. I do sometimes but I have a wild streak.

Like all good ideas, sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t; boots on the ground kind of thing. When I put this to the test in my relationships with men and women I’d like to have a more specific plan since I’m a lover and a giver. My cup is always full and I need to empty it. That’s why I’m a giver. The last thing I need is more offloading, vampires, users, fakers and very unstable in my space looking for love that they need to find within and can find within. That’s when my cup empties quickly. That’s where discernment comes in.

How can we keep a strong boundary as empaths and lovers?

If you truly love the other person, you accept where they are on the Self-Love spectrum. Don’t rush in where angels fear to tread. Instead, observe their behavior. Are they intuitive with you as you are with them? Are they emotionally sensitive to you when you need a shoulder or a hug or just to talk? They can give to you if they give to their own Self.
Also, how much do they talk about their family? Are they still enslaved by a toxic family and defined by their toxic projection onto them? This issue is epidemic. Reiki aligns it.
Do you love your own body enough so that when you have sex, you don’t suck energy from the other person but just “share” who you are? If you truly love your body you will just enjoy each other’s bodies, you won’t feel the need to possess the other. The other person can feel it if you do that.
Is your conversation and dynamic peaceful with the other person? Or are there feelings of tension, or one person does all the talking all the time while the other one listens. Do they ask you how YOU are or is it always about them?

Intuition comes into play here more than reason. Studies have shown that humans highly communicate through body language. Everybody has different feelings but it’s not others job to figure you out. It’s your job to figure you out and know how you feel. It’s called maturity and mindfulness. You are the one IN your relationship, other’s are not or should not be, so they are of no use coming to a decision, ultimately. Our friends can be a sounding board for our own feelings though. That’s what friends are for; not to tell you what to do in a relationship.

How do we define bonding?

“I miss you when you’re not here.” You’re bonded.
“I need you next to me in bed”. You’re bonded.
“I need to talk to you to feel secure.” You’re bonded.
“I want to be with you more or most of the time.” You’re bonded.

The list can go on but it’s always, “I need”, “I want”. As an adult, you are able to regulate feelings of need and want via your brain. If your brain isn’t regulating it, put boots on the ground again and get exercising, moving, eating healthy and drinking water. It’s that simple. Just do it and stop pondering it.

Can women keep their feelings during sex and not bond? How?

Realize that your feelings are for yourself. The man is barely absorbing them or feeling them anyway because all he feels is your body. While it’s true that the body is your feelings and thoughts, being mentally aware of your feelings is a higher level of cognition that women have. Most men don’t have it. They haven’t evolved the skill of knowing how they feel past being hungry or horny. It’s unbelievable to women but it reminds me of Hermione in Harry Potter when she referred to Ron as having the emotional range of a teaspoon. And it’s unfair for women to expect most men to be any different. That’s like asking women not to have breasts. Of course, we have breasts. It’s natural.

I would say “Yes”, we can love one another without traditional bonding but it’s not realistic to expect others to be able to. 98% of humans bond to one another and thus we have all the problems that we do on earth.

People follow each other instead of their inner knowing. I personally think we need to grow past that but I certainly don’t expect it. True unity happens when we are all naturally sitting in our center. The fact is, we’re already bonded with all of life in the physical as one big family of Life. Just relax into that instead of adding another layer of latching on.