Easy. I can love swinging on a tree swing but I don’t trust the strength of the tree limb, even if it looks strong. We love who we love at SOUL level. Maybe they are your destiny and like everyone they have foibles, vices, and weakness.
You can try it out for a time but if their behavior is too bad, you can’t do it. That doesn’t mean you don’t love them. You just can’t live with it.
Some people are just genuinely bad. They just…misbehave or have bad judgment 75% of the time. But you can see who they are as a soul, as God does.
But you can’tĀ be in denial about who they choose to be against God in them. You can’t bond to that or you go down. You can’t go down bc of someone else. There is nothing good about that.
Trust has to be based on actions and words, not who you wish they were.
Synchronicity is the Source of Consciousness 