Essay; The “No Relationship Agreement”, Like a Pre-Nup only it’s a Pre-Sex Agreement


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I wrote this 5 years ago. Today is May 6, 2026 and it’s still an idea to consider.

This is the antonym of “The Relationship Agreement” first suggested on the show “The Big Bang Theory” by Sheldon Cooper. At this point, it’s just an idea but it would make me feel better if men knew my boundaries before I date them. I’m interested in sex and Love but not being a man’s territory for his status ambitions.

They also can’t power trip and insult me like I’m an emotional, needy girl that falls in love when I have sex with a man. I don’t. That’s younger girls, not older women. Nor do I care what previous women have expected of him.l, loke his patriarchally derived money for instance. I control myself. I have zero time or interest in being a dog-trainer because I’m not a bitch.

It can be widely observed that women are treated like “capital”, territory, objects to be owned or sold like a slave as in sex-trafficking, married for status under the guise of love that usually only lasts for ten years, and possessed by a man like a house or a car. Or, used for sex and thrown to the curb with no feelings whatsoever. That is factual in our society.

I strongly feel this agreement is appropriate for women and men over 50 since it is not ideal that either of them reproduces. The main purpose of marriage is protective reproduction. After 50, there is no point of marriage and most professionals agree.

Most females that don’t pander to patriarchy function socially and biologically under the values of Love and Freedom, that have a spiritual foundation, not ownership because we make humans in our bodies which is sacred. Our sex energy is stronger and more important than the male because everything in our body automatically makes a human being. We hold the species in our hearts. We don’t need to dink around with A.I. or technology or cross-dressing to fantasize about being a woman; we live it. It’s true that the egg and the sperm are equal in needing to conceive but the fact that the woman alone does the rest means that the sexual energy we share with a man is a BIG PROFIT to him. It gives him some of eternity whether he realizes it or not.

They take our sex energy and more and don’t give much back because maybe they don’t have as much to give as women do. They try to use money to substitute.

Males and thus patriarchy are cashing in on women who don’t realize what big sexual energy we have that rivals males and men don’t understand why we give it away. Like Bruno Mars sings, “Your sex takes me to Paradise.” If he’s not having sex, he feels like he’s been locked out of heaven! That song says it all as do many other songs with men expressing their deep feelings about how dependent they are on our bodies for happiness. Swimming in our bodies is apparently something spiritual. Women just shake their heads because to us it’s just normal and men get dramatic about it!

Most women love giving their sex energy but not to the point of bankruptcy. It’s getting to the bankrupt point on this planet and it’s up to women to stop the hemorrhage.

If you think about a woman’s body like a bank account, women are letting men rob the bank.

Prostitution starts to make men pay for a loan but only scratches the surface. Men need to start to pay their own way on the Earth in the form of Love so this agreement is my idea to start in that direction. I don’t know if it’s possible. Maybe it’s like trying to get blood from a turnip.

Please note that I’m not suggesting a “No Love”, “No intimacy” agreement. In fact, women are the opposite. The “No-relationship” agreement is a first step to legally and socially protect a woman from becoming the territory of a man and her energy being owned only by herself, thus guarding her sexual energy for future generations of humans and possibly saving the species.

Women are being abused, used, trafficked, raped and denigrated everywhere on the planet and it’s gotta stop. Male, patriarchal institutions are trying to kill the species. That’s the opposite of everything women are about.

The No-Relationship Agreement

This must be initialed by both parties (herein called the fucker and the fuckee whose roles can swap) before having sex. Sex is never an obligatory act once enacted. We are still both totally free. Human beings don’t possess one another; we bond through love. ___________

  1. You agree not to ask me to be your girl/boyfriend._________
  2. You agree not to ask me to marry you._________
  3. You agree that if we discuss it at length, after some time, and agree, we can be monogamous lovers but still not be in a formal relationship that suggests territory. Once initialed, we agree that neither of us will bring another sexual partner into our home if we live together and agree to be monogamous lovers. ________
  4. If one changes their mind and doesn’t want to be monogamous lovers there is no obligation or punishment forthwith. We are both free agents and will go our own way.__________
  5. Under no circumstances does one ever tell the other one what to do. We can ask but never command.____________
  6. We both have and control our own money.__________
  7. Either of us can ask for a 3-way but never expect it.__________
  8. We both agree that digital sex is only occasional or just goofing around. Neither one of us engages in it with anyone as a predominant mode of sex. We agree that sex without a body is unhealthy and dumb.__________
  9. If we want to go out together just ask the other one. There is no obligation and we can ask someone else to go with us, female or male._________
  10. Public designation without #3 is “friends”.____________
  11. Public designation with #3 is “partner”._____________
  12. If one falls in love with the other because they’ve lost their mind, the other one has permission to bolt. We agree not to call the police or missing person.__________

It’s an idea. When a man I date actually initials it I’ll let you know. It would mean his intent is to love and give something back and not use my sexual energy.

Essay: The Effort to Be Free is Politics


There is no freedom without the truth. That’s why political activism doesn’t work. It spins people’s wheels, so they never really find empowerment, which is in their body mind.

Politics and journalism are based on lies for the gain of money and power and that is not a conspiracy theory. It’s based on untold human graves, suffering and abuse at the hands of state governments all over the world. Any politician who supports the status quo is in shadow. Same for the media who are 100% bought and paid for biased.

There is a great price to pay for seeing what you want to see instead of the truth and the politicians and the media know exactly how to tell you just what you want to hear.

No one has the right to control another’s body or time


In our society at the moment, people seem to be waking up to the fact that only individuals have the right to control their bodies. It’s not your role to approve of others physically and they don’t have to approve of you physically. Conservatives have a hard time with this for some reason and I am a conservative. But I’ve never judged people’s bodies or appearance. Why do they do that?

Having an opinion is one thing, but if you morally judge someone’s body and choices about their body you’re making a mountain of karma for yourself. What goes around comes around.

It seems to be agitating the conservative movement the most as they hone to a natural order that individuals feel they have the right to upset with any technology they wish, that’s possible via mechanistic technology other than natural technology. I’m holistic so I very much dislike mechanistic tech on the body but accord others the right to do what they choose (and regret it later which my patients usually do).

It could be considered an abuse of that artificial technology but the fact is, the right has been as complicit in the abuses of humanity from 320 tech and aerospace companies trying to push A.I. on the planet as the left has…for profit, or because their palms were greased for political advantage. Both sides LOVE money. They agree on that and it defines politics. Trump pushed the production of the much-maligned mRNA vaccine for God’s sake! He was on the front line with that thing. The hypocrisy on both sides is rife!

Since we all agree we are free in our bodies that means we are free in how we use our time as well since the body IS TIME. But what about our responsibility to one another and the collective with these new freedoms?

It’s a choice. The right and the left have to accept FREE WILL. Politicians love to pretend they can control each other and win, and control others which is why I would never run for office. Yet they preach freedom all the time. They’re like really bad parents with kids in the house. Very dysfunctional. There is nothing more dysfunctional right now than the U.S. government. I bet most Americans would agree.🇺🇸

Just leave home and do your own thing. People who love you are going to like you no matter what and if they don’t, you’re better off without them. The center of the universe has your back, not the left or the right.

Kari Lake Says ‘Powerful People’ Recently Tried to Bribe Her to Leave Politics


No intelligent, articulate, high-integrity, authentic females are allowed to lead or speak in politics or science.

Now, what will they do to get rid of her?

https://link.theepochtimes.com/mkt_app/kari-lake-says-powerful-people-recently-tried-to-bribe-her-to-leave-politics_5100916.html?utm_source=andshare

She EMPOWERS people and seals FREEWILL. The c%^&* can’t have that. Today is Yellow 6 Human and we are in the BLUE HAND 13-day cycle, her analog.

August 23, 1969. Check it yourself. Google Kari Lake birthday

She is in good with Trump and it’s been suggested that she would run as his V.P. She will tell him who these people were and he’ll be all over it. Clear as day. He is her analog; Blue Hand ✋️

He Just Got Fired, Today, for not Wearing a Mask at Work


Here was my comment on his post

Sue them. Call the local news. Make an issue of how illegal their action is. Take it to the Supreme Court and get back pay and a freaking apology and admittance that they were wrong.

Lisa T.

And he says on here, he thought most people would disagree with him and think it was stupid. If they do, they aren’t going to make it through the changes.

The time is OVER on Earth for people to lay down and take fascist dictatorship about YOUR BODY. Choose. Self generate.

He did a great job pivoting his frequency to the light and empowerment. ALL good comes from being true to yourself. The universe helps those who help themselves. It honors Source.

People Died From mRNA-Vaccine-Damaged Hearts, New Peer-Reviewed German Study Provides Direct Evidence


This is about 3D geneticists manipulating our DNA to knock us off or weaken us so I’m posting it. Or they could just be dumb. Dr. Chavez thought so.

4D Time is DNA not their crap. It’s up to each individual to stop doing what Mainstream Healthcare tells you to do, educate yourself, take care of yourself and spend money on holistic medicine.

I recommend, DO stay true to your intuition and your body. Do not do as you are told, by anyone.

https://link.theepochtimes.com/mkt_app/health/people-died-from-mrna-vaccine-damaged-hearts-new-peer-reviewed-german-study-provides-direct-evidence_4919662.html?utm_source=andshare

Essay: The Effort to Be Free is Politics


There is no freedom without the truth. That’s why political activism doesn’t work. It spins people’s wheels, so they never really find empowerment, which is in their body mind.

Politics and journalism are based on lies for the gain of money and power and that is not a conspiracy theory. It’s based on untold human graves, suffering and abuse at the hands of state governments all over the world. Any politician who supports the status quo is in shadow. Same for the media who are 100% bought and paid for biased.

There is a great price to pay for seeing what you want to see instead of the truth and the politicians and the media know exactly how to tell you just what you want to hear.

Sacred Beginnings | Grand Rapids, MI | Supporting Victims of Trafficking


Go to this website and watch the video. Her book, “When Angels Fight” is available on Amazon.

https://www.sbtp.org/

I just got back from my meeting with the BBB and Leslie King’s name was dropped. She is from Grand Rapids, lives here, and helps women who have been human trafficked. Human trafficking and violence toward women and men in the sex trade is a nationwide problem. As she says on the video, it is a multibillion dollar industry. This is Jeffrey Epstein level evil on which I did a blog post showing how he lingered in the shadow of his birth kin destiny.

This mentality has corrupted bodyworkers, healers and lightworkers in my state and likely all over the country because of the DEGRADATION OF THE HUMAN BODY and our DNA, and who we are as a species. It speaks directly to what I am about and teaching as far as holistic mindset and the Mayan oracle.

She talks about forgiveness, spirituality, and about feeling hugged by Spirit. She FELT IT. God answered her prayer and it took her into rehab. Makes me weep. God is real. Source is real. Synchronicity is REAL.

Our DNA, our time, our bodies are a temple of the Holy Spirit. I’m all about it and I think highly of the human race, not politically correct disdain as many do. Holistic medicine is all about this.

I will be contacting Leslie and will keep you posted. Netflix is making a movie about her story.

A NEW 13:20 Narrative to Secure Human Freedom For Earth


We no longer trust or need politics, religion, wrong science or government controlled by men to secure the freedoms and power that are inherent in our minds and bodies. Let it be so and go your way.

The Thirteen Moon calendar is an evolutionary tool to assist humanity in the unprecedented act of uniting itself on one issue central to its complete well-being: TIME.

The harmonic convergence of humanity on this one issue, combined with the inescapable order, perfection and simplicity of following the 13 Moon calendar will lift the species as a simultaneous whole into the galactic timing frequency of 13:20.”

José Argüelles/Valum Votan, The Call of Pacal Votan

We attest that we, the 13:20 Kin of the 4 Color Tribes and 5 Earth Families, which includes every single person on Planet Earth from every single culture, hold these Values to Be SELF-EXISTENT beyond politics, religion, or government;

  1. We Inform the flowering of humanity and Earth
  2. We remember the elegance of LIFE
  3. We formulate free will for ourselves, not needing authoritarian permission
  4. When we express ourselves, we seek to do so intelligently, all the time
  5. We Self-Regulate. We do not seek it outside of our bodies as we acknowledge that our bodies hold TIME and ETERNITY in every cell of our bodies as taught to us by the Maya.

The 13 Tones of Creation;

  1. Magnetic; Acknowledge FORM or 3D on Earth
  2. Polar; Acknowledge INTEGRITY in all of our dealings to stabilize
  3. Electric; Acknowledge COOPERATION within diversity
  4. Self-Existing; Acknowledge SERVICE to the community
  5. Overtone; Acknowledge ATTUNEMENT of the human soul via art
  6. Rhythmic; Acknowledge LIBERATION in all it’s forms
  7. Resonant; Acknowledge CHALLENGE for our growth and evolution
  8. Galactic; Acknowledge EQUALITY of value for all species
  9. Solar; Acknowledge MANIFESTATION in the hologram via our Great Star
  10. Planetary; Acknowledge PURPOSE for each kin
  11. Spectral; Acknowledge RADIANCE of each kin
  12. Crystal; Acknowledge INTENTION of each kin
  13. Cosmic; Acknowledge COSMIC RIGHTS, existence, awareness, and Universal Law extended to each kin

Throughout the 260-day-cycle sprocket with the 365-day Solar year, we keep a MINDSET of ACTION in each of the 65, 4-kin harmonics in the Tzolkin. This is how we use our time, illuminated by the Harmonic in which we were born every day, with an overlay of our actions for one we happen to be in currently. 65 x 4days = 260-day-cycle. As things spins within the 365 day solar-3D year it raises the frequency by 5 to bring in the bring in 5th density gradually. That occurs through the 13 full moon cycles each solar year. 13 x 28 days = 364. In essence, through the DNA of our mothers bodies. It’s in the sequences as the Loom of the 13 Moons, the DNA double helix woven by our Mother’s in utero.

  • HF1-Inform the flowering of form (manifest a body in the holographic Matrix)
  • HF2-Remember the elegance of integrity
  • HF3-Formulate the free will of cooperation
  • HF4-Express the intelligence of service
  • HF5-Self-Regulate the Universal Fire of Attunement
  • HF6-Inform the flowering of Liberation
  • HF7-Remember the elegance of challenge (Be a good sport)
  • HF8-Formulate the free will of equality
  • HF9-Express the intelligence of manifestation (It’s good to be in physical-NO GUILT)
  • HF10-Self-regulate the universal fire of purpose
  • HF11-Inform the flowering of radiance
  • HF12-Remember the elegance of intention
  • HF13-Formulate the free will of presence (Just be yourself)
  • HF14-Express the intelligence of form
  • HF15-Self-regulate the universal fire of integrity
  • HF16-Inform the flowering of cooperation
  • HF17-Remember the elegance of service
  • HF18-Formulate the free will of attunement
  • HF19-Express the intelligence of liberation
  • HF20 Self-regulate the universal fire of challenge
  • HF21-Inform the flowering of equality
  • HF22-Remember the elegance of manifestation
  • HF23-Formulate the free will of purpose
  • HF24-Express the intelligence of radiance
  • HF25-Self-regulate the universal fire of intention
  • HF26-Inform the flowering of presence
  • HF27-Remember the elegance of form
  • HF28-Formulate the free will of integrity
  • HF29-Express the intelligence of cooperation
  • HF30-Self-regulate the universal fire of service
  • HF31-Inform the flowering of attunement
  • HF32-Remember the elegance of liberation
  • HF33-Formulate the free will of challenge
  • HF34-Express the intelligence of equality
  • HF35-Self-regulate the universal fire of manifestation
  • HF36-Inform the flowering of purpose
  • HF37-Remember the elegance of radiance
  • HF38-Formulate the free will of intention
  • HF39-Express the intelligence of presence
  • HF40-Self-regulate the universal fire of form
  • HF41-Inform the flowering of integrity
  • HF42-Remember the elegance of cooperation
  • HF43-Formulate the free will of service
  • HF44-Express the intelligence of attunement
  • HF45-Self-regulate the universal fire of liberation
  • HF46-Inform the flowering of challenge
  • HF47-Remember the elegance of equality (We are currently in this one)
  • HF48-Formulate the free will of manifestation
  • HF49-Express the intelligence of purpose
  • HF50-Self-regulate the universal fire of radiance
  • HF51-Inform the flowering of intention
  • HF52-Remember the elegance of presence
  • HF53-Formulate the free will of form
  • HF54-Express the intelligence of integrity
  • HF55-Self-regulate universal fire of cooperation
  • HF56-Inform the flowering of service
  • HF57-Remember the elegance of attunement
  • HF58-Formulate the free will of liberation
  • HF59-Express the intelligence of challenge
  • HF60-Self-regulate the universal fire of equality
  • HF61-Inform the flowering of manifestation
  • HF62-Remember the elegance of purpose
  • HF63-Formulate the free will of radiance
  • HF64-Express the intelligence of intention
  • HF65-Self-regulate the universal fire of presence

Work on Earth is Complete

Fifth Density Earth Will be Manifested By Us. We have to raise our Frequency and our Time Coordinate.

Essay: Heartset; Relevancy (Freebie)


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Are we really only relevant to the extent that other human beings find us relevant? Isn’t that why people have dogs and cats? You’re always relevant to your pet if only because they need you to feed them. If you need to be needed, you need to feel relevant. I guess I need to express myself more than be considered relevant.

Or maybe we do literally need to be perceived as relevant in order to make money. That’s really what underlies our actions. We just need money. We have to have money to survive. Many people know how to fake care about others for accolades, fame, sales, and money. Their ego just needs attention. Mine don’t mostly because I find it boring and tedious.

The issue here is there are many superb people doing fabulous work that are irrelevant to the masses because the masses don’t see or appreciate fabulous work. That is the case for many brilliant artists and it remains that way until they die. I’m not doing fabulous work at the moment so that’s not the case for me. If I was doing fabulous work I wouldn’t look for the masses to appreciate it though.

What about relevant to yourself? We’re always more relevant to ourselves than we are to others because they don’t live in our bodies or with us. That’s kind of the crux of it. That is the case for me. I wish I could be paid to be improving my body which is what I’m pre-occupied with. Instead, I live in a system that wants me to pay it to be sick. If I take care of myself and don’t need their pills, surgery, or visits, I’m irrelevant. So they work very hard to convince me and everyone else that there is something wrong with us and we need them. That’s just vacant and evil.

This was a very weird day. My intuition was in high gear and I just rolled with it as usual. Yes, I do want to eventually be relevant because human empowerment to live in balance not overtop of all life is a good thing. That’s what I care about. I find that relevant.

Essay; The “No Relationship Agreement”, Like a Pre-Nup only it’s a Pre-Sex


presexual agreement

This is the antonym of “The Relationship Agreement” first suggested on the show “The Big Bang Theory” by Sheldon Cooper. At this point, it’s just an idea but it would make me feel better if men knew my boundaries before I date them. I’m interested in sex and Love but not being a man’s territory for his status ambitions.

They also can’t power trip and insult me like I’m an emotional, needy girl that falls in love when I have sex with a man. I don’t. That’s younger girls, not older women. Nor do I care what previous women have expected of him.l, loke his patriarchally derived money for instance. I control myself. I have zero time or interest in being a dog-trainer because I’m not a bitch.

It can be widely observed that women are treated like “capital”, territory, objects to be owned or sold like a slave as in sex-trafficking, married for status under the guise of love that usually only lasts for ten years, and possessed by a man like a house or a car. Or, used for sex and thrown to the curb with no feelings whatsoever. That is factual in our society.

I strongly feel this agreement is appropriate for women and men over 50 since it is not ideal that either of them reproduces. The main purpose of marriage is protective reproduction. After 50, there is no point of marriage and most professionals agree.

Most females that don’t pander to patriarchy function socially and biologically under the values of Love and Freedom, that have a spiritual foundation, not ownership because we make humans in our bodies which is sacred. Our sex energy is stronger and more important than the male because everything in our body automatically makes a human being. We hold the species in our hearts. We don’t need to dink around with A.I. or technology or cross-dressing to fantasize about being a woman; we live it. It’s true that the egg and the sperm are equal in needing to conceive but the fact that the woman alone does the rest means that the sexual energy we share with a man is a BIG PROFIT to him. It gives him some of eternity whether he realizes it or not.

They take our sex energy and more and don’t give much back because maybe they don’t have as much to give as women do. They try to use money to substitute.

Males and thus patriarchy are cashing in on women who don’t realize what big sexual energy we have that rivals males and men don’t understand why we give it away. Like Bruno Mars sings, “Your sex takes me to Paradise.” If he’s not having sex, he feels like he’s been locked out of heaven! That song says it all as do many other songs with men expressing their deep feelings about how dependent they are on our bodies for happiness. Swimming in our bodies is apparently something spiritual. Women just shake their heads because to us it’s just normal and men get dramatic about it!

Most women love giving their sex energy but not to the point of bankruptcy. It’s getting to the bankrupt point on this planet and it’s up to women to stop the hemorrhage.

If you think about a woman’s body like a bank account, women are letting men rob the bank.

Prostitution starts to make men pay for a loan but only scratches the surface. Men need to start to pay their own way on the Earth in the form of Love so this agreement is my idea to start in that direction. I don’t know if it’s possible. Maybe it’s like trying to get blood from a turnip.

Please note that I’m not suggesting a “No Love”, “No intimacy” agreement. In fact, women are the opposite. The “No-relationship” agreement is a first step to legally and socially protect a woman from becoming the territory of a man and her energy being owned only by herself, thus guarding her sexual energy for future generations of humans and possibly saving the species.

Women are being abused, used, trafficked, raped and denigrated everywhere on the planet and it’s gotta stop. Male, patriarchal institutions are trying to kill the species. That’s the opposite of everything women are about.

The No-Relationship Agreement

This must be initialed by both parties (herein called the fucker and the fuckee whose roles can swap) before having sex. Sex is never an obligatory act once enacted. We are still both totally free. Human beings don’t possess one another; we bond through love. ___________

  1. You agree not to ask me to be your girl/boyfriend._________
  2. You agree not to ask me to marry you._________
  3. You agree that if we discuss it at length, after some time, and agree, we can be monogamous lovers but still not be in a formal relationship that suggests territory. Once initialed, we agree that neither of us will bring another sexual partner into our home if we live together and agree to be monogamous lovers. ________
  4. If one changes their mind and doesn’t want to be monogamous lovers there is no obligation or punishment forthwith. We are both free agents and will go our own way.__________
  5. Under no circumstances does one ever tell the other one what to do. We can ask but never command.____________
  6. We both have and control our own money.__________
  7. Either of us can ask for a 3-way but never expect it.__________
  8. We both agree that digital sex is only occasional or just goofing around. Neither one of us engages in it with anyone as a predominant mode of sex. We agree that sex without a body is unhealthy and dumb.__________
  9. If we want to go out together just ask the other one. There is no obligation and we can ask someone else to go with us, female or male._________
  10. Public designation without #3 is “friends”.____________
  11. Public designation with #3 is “partner”._____________
  12. If one falls in love with the other because they’ve lost their mind, the other one has permission to bolt. We agree not to call the police or missing person.__________

It’s an idea. When a man I date actually initials it I’ll let you know. It would mean his intent is to love and give something back and not use my sexual energy.