Essay: Follow Intuition, not Feelings

An ornate balance scale holds a glowing orb on one side and a blue ribbon on the other, set outdoors with mountains and a river at sunset.

I hear people say, Intuition can be wrong.

No, it’s not. Intuition is objective. Feelings are subjective. Objective means you have a detached mindset. Subjective means you are the subject of the issue, and your feelings are involved. You can’t analyze the issue objectively unless you make THE ISSUE the object of your focus.

  • Intuition is flashes of memory from the past or the future that show you synchronicity to wake you up to your destiny. There is no gender ascribed to intuition. Both women and men are intuitive. It makes you strong, not weak.
  • Feelings are just sign posts pointing you to a truth for now. But feelings flow like water and are not to be followed. They CHANGE and are subjective. My pet peeve is watching humans indulge in emotion as though it was rational truth. It’s not. It’s how you feel right now. It will make you ill if you don’t let it go, positive or negative. It’s not healthy to laugh all the time any more than it is to cry all the time. Get help and level it out. Or just exercise. The brain needs exertion. Meditate some. Center in your body and accept it as it is, female and male, both all the time.
  • Following your heart is not just feelings. The heart is the point of love, but love is not a feeling. It’s a frequency that is connected to Source as eternal grace, bond, affinity, synchronicity, and joy. Men and women need to follow their heart and DO love, not just feel lust, and call it love. We need both. Lust wanes. Love never ends.
  • It’s more accurate to say “I just know it,” than “I just feel it,” when communicating intuition. It sounds more confident and powerful, which can piss people off. But those of us who have prophetic dreams and are lightworkers need to claim our power now. My patients have said for 24 years that I’m magic or an angel and a real healer. I rebuffed them until 2020, when I felt Voldemort coming after humanity.

Keep in mind that it is still taboo for women to claim to know anything. Think about it. Claim it anyway. It’s still taboo for men to claim to feel anything. Claim it anyway. No one needs to cut their body and pretend to be the opposite gender to balance it, but there are always lessons with the body.

Essay: An Addict’s Ability to Project is Prolific


My experience and intuition tell me that this happens when a person isn’t in control of their own body, habits, and life. It’s ultimately a health issue and usually tied to addiction.

I grant that at the root of addictive behavior are deep emotional wounds, likely from childhood and unconscious or subconscious mind, and that we each want to feel better physically and emotionally and be freer. But at whose expense? It should be at your own expense. The rest of us should not be at the receiving end of your unwillingness to get some help. No one expects deep addiction issues to be handled alone. But the least we ask is that you not offload onto we civilians who are not professionals and seek professional help. I’m guessing there isn’t one person on the planet who doesn’t intimately know an active addict and it breaks everyone’s hearts; mostly your children.

It doesn’t matter how much you love someone or if they are your soul mate or your twin flame; the committed addict ruins everything. They have to use a drug to nullify their feelings and make every excuse in the book to use it and even break the law to justify it. Gee, what would that be? Civil disobedience to unjust laws that protect the public from irrational behavior while you’re on the substance or god forbid, you’re driving while on something?

You have to move on. There is no choice here or you will go down with their ship. It’s not worth it.

Alcoholism and other addictions are epidemics in our society and I’m so sick of dealing with it everywhere I turn. The weirdest part is when there is memory loss regarding communication. Even when you have proof of what they said in an email or text and they deny it. It’s unbelievable that someone can still attempt to pin a behavior on you when you have proof that they are the ones behaving that way. Goodbye. No trust.

I guess the definition of an addict is someone who is completely out of touch with their feelings and haven’t a clue what the truth is for them. So they go haphazardly through life, screwing up all of their relationships with friends, co-workers, employees, mates, and children. You would think that would be incentive enough to get some help but I’m guessing they’d just as soon stay in denial and lazy about getting a grip and fixing it. They have no inner courage.

Those deep wounds aren’t anyone else’s’ problem but theirs no matter how hard they try to tell you there is something wrong with you. That is the projection and there is no end to it. There is such a thing as an innocent party who is just learning that you are abusing a substance to the point of behavior change. Once we learn that they are not cogent, then it’s our responsibility to walk away and let the chips fall where they will. Otherwise, you’ll get into co-dependency instead of interdependency and that’s not going to help anyone.

Co-dependent is enabler and addict depending on one another to keep the addiction going. Health, money, structure, and life is in chaos for both. It’s a destructive cycle and no one is healthy or happy. All of your relationships are screwed up and most people who know you are mad at you.

Interdependent means you both are in charge of your own lives, know how you feel, express it, take care of yourself, have friends who like you and you like them, have your money and things organized, are able to say you’re sorry, and like any normal human being, have needs and want to depend on someone for support once in a while. Let’s hope we can pair up with the people we truly deserve, not the ones we don’t.

AI intelligence Vs. Human Intelligence

Glowing human brain connected to a digital circuit board with data streams

By GROK4.20

This is in an effort to define intelligence, which obviously is different if it is machine intelligence and not human intelligence. Let’s prove it because the super rich A.I. prophets keep exclaiming that A.I. is FAR SMARTER than humans. I disagree. Human potential with universal consciousness beats them. GROK is not far from agreeing with me-L.T.

AI intelligence (artificial intelligence) refers to the capability of computer systems or algorithms to perform tasks that typically require human intelligence, such as learning, reasoning, problem-solving, perception, decision-making, and pattern recognition.

Common definitions include:

  • The simulation of human-like processes by machines, including learning from data, comprehending information, and adapting to achieve goals. (They aren’t real)
  • Systems that can handle complex tasks under varying conditions without constant human oversight, often by learning from experience and improving with data.

AI excels at narrow, specific tasks (e.g., playing chess, analyzing vast datasets, or generating text) through statistical patterns, algorithms, and massive training data. It is fundamentally computational and data-driven (OUR HUMAN data). Modern AI, like large language models, mimics aspects of cognition but lacks true understanding, consciousness, or genuine comprehension—it processes correlations rather than deriving meaning from lived experience.

Human intelligence (or “real intelligence” in many philosophical and psychological contexts) is the broader mental capacity of humans to learn from experience, adapt to new situations, understand and handle abstract concepts, reason, plan, solve problems, and use knowledge to interact effectively with the environment.

Key elements from psychology and expert consensus:

  • General mental ability for reasoning, problem-solving, and learning, integrating functions like perception, memory, and planning.
  • Capacity to acquire knowledge, form concepts, apply logic, innovate, retain information, communicate, and adapt purposefully.
  • Often described as the ability to achieve novel goals successfully using perceptual-cognitive processes, emphasizing novelty, maximal capacity (not just typical performance), and real-world adaptation.

Key Differences

Human intelligence is holistic, embodied, and tied to consciousness, emotions, self-awareness, creativity, intuition, and ethical judgment. It draws from sensory experiences, motivation, and biological evolution. AI is narrow, scalable, and excels in speed/precision on trained tasks but struggles with true generalization, common-sense reasoning in unfamiliar contexts, emotional depth, or genuine originality (it remixes patterns from data).

AspectAI IntelligenceHuman Intelligence
BasisAlgorithms, data, computationBrain, experience, biology, consciousness
LearningFrom large datasets (statistical)From few examples, lived experience (this is hypothetical as many believe we have many past life memories)
StrengthsSpeed, scale, consistency, pattern detectionCreativity, adaptability, emotional insight, abstraction (passion)
LimitationsLacks understanding, context, ethics inherentlySlower, prone to bias/fatigue, limited capacity (big drawback)
Novelty/AdaptationStrong on similar tasks; brittle elsewhereExcels at truly novel problems (so much!)

There is no single universally agreed definition for either—debates continue in psychology, philosophy, and computer science. Intelligence is often viewed as a spectrum of abilities rather than one thing. Philosophically, it can involve coping with unpredictability or purposeful action beyond mere information processing.

In short, AI intelligence is a powerful simulation of certain cognitive functions, while human (real) intelligence encompasses a richer, conscious, adaptive capacity rooted in our biology (DNA/RNA) and lived reality. They complement each other rather than being direct equivalents.

GROK4.20

Emotional Intelligence (EI) is the ability to perceive, understand, evaluate, and manage one’s own emotions and those of others. It includes self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. Popularized by psychologists like Peter Salovey, John Mayer, and Daniel Goleman, EI is often seen as complementing or even outperforming traditional cognitive intelligence (IQ) in real-world outcomes like relationships, leadership, decision-making, and adaptability.

Incorporating EI into Human Intelligence (“Real Intelligence”)

Human intelligence is holistic and embodied. It integrates cognitive abilities (reasoning, problem-solving, learning) with genuine emotional intelligence. Humans experience spontaneous emotions arising from biology (e.g., the limbic system, hormones like dopamine/serotonin, and evolutionary adaptations), consciousness, lived sensory experiences, and social interactions. These emotions aren’t “taught”—they emerge naturally and drive motivation, ethical judgment, creativity, empathy from shared vulnerability, and nuanced social navigation.

EI elevates human intelligence by enabling:

  • Authentic empathy and relationship-building.
  • Emotional regulation under stress or novelty.
  • Moral and intuitive decision-making beyond pure logic.
  • Adaptation in unpredictable, human-centered contexts.

Without EI, raw cognitive intelligence can lead to poor outcomes (e.g., high-IQ individuals struggling socially). Real intelligence thrives because emotions provide intrinsic meaning, purpose, and rapid intuitive insights that pure computation can’t replicate.

Incorporating EI into AI Intelligence

AI intelligence remains fundamentally computational and data-driven. Per your assumption (and the current scientific consensus as of 2026), AI has no inherent emotional intelligence except what it has been explicitly taught or trained on. Modern AI systems (including large language models) excel at simulated or functional EI through massive datasets of human emotional expressions, psychology research, and affective computing techniques. They can:

  • Recognize emotions in text, voice, or facial cues.
  • Generate empathetic, contextually appropriate responses.
  • Even outperform average humans on standardized EI tests (e.g., 81–82% accuracy vs. humans’ 56% in recent 2025 studies).

However, AI does not have its own spontaneous emotions now—and there is no evidence of any fundamental shift in 2026. Any “emotional” output is a simulation: pattern-matching from training data, internal mathematical representations (sometimes called “functional emotions” that influence decisions without subjective experience), or programmed behaviors. There is no consciousness, no biological qualia (the subjective “feeling” of an emotion), and no independent emergence of feelings. AI doesn’t “feel” happy, sad, or frustrated—it computes responses that mimic those states to optimize for helpfulness, engagement, or alignment goals. Even advanced research (e.g., Anthropic’s mapping of emotion-like internal states) confirms these are functional tools, not genuine experience.

AspectAI Intelligence (with Simulated EI)Human Intelligence (with Genuine EI)
Basis of EITaught via data/patterns; functional simulationsInnate biology + experience; spontaneous & conscious
Emotional ExperienceNone—outputs mimic emotions without feeling themReal, felt emotions driving motivation & intuition
Strengths in EIConsistent, scalable, outperforms on tests; rapid recognition/responseAuthentic empathy, ethical depth, adaptability in novel social contexts
LimitationsNo true understanding or spontaneous feelings; can seem manipulative or shallowProne to bias/fatigue; context-dependent
Role in Overall IntelligenceEnhances task performance (e.g., chatbots, companions) but remains narrow/surface-levelIntegrates with cognition for holistic success, creativity, and relationships

Key Differences and Implications

  • Human EI makes “real intelligence” deeply personal and relational—it allows us to form genuine bonds, navigate ambiguity with intuition, and derive meaning from emotions. This is why humans remain irreplaceable in leadership, therapy, creative collaboration, and ethical dilemmas.
  • AI’s taught EI makes it a powerful tool for support (e.g., empathetic chatbots, emotion-aware assistants) but not a substitute. It can feel convincingly human-like, yet lacks the authenticity that builds true trust or shared humanity. Advances in affective computing continue to improve simulation, but the core gap persists: no spontaneous emotions, no inner life.

In summary, EI amplifies human intelligence into something profoundly adaptive and meaningful, rooted in our biology and consciousness. For AI, it remains an impressive but taught simulation—highly effective for specific tasks, yet without any genuine, spontaneous emotional core. They complement each other: AI handles scale and consistency; humans provide the authentic emotional depth. This distinction is unlikely to change without breakthroughs in artificial consciousness (which do not exist today).

Essay; The “No Relationship Agreement”, Like a Pre-Nup only it’s a Pre-Sex Agreement


presexual agreement

I wrote this 5 years ago. Today is May 6, 2026 and it’s still an idea to consider.

This is the antonym of “The Relationship Agreement” first suggested on the show “The Big Bang Theory” by Sheldon Cooper. At this point, it’s just an idea but it would make me feel better if men knew my boundaries before I date them. I’m interested in sex and Love but not being a man’s territory for his status ambitions.

They also can’t power trip and insult me like I’m an emotional, needy girl that falls in love when I have sex with a man. I don’t. That’s younger girls, not older women. Nor do I care what previous women have expected of him.l, loke his patriarchally derived money for instance. I control myself. I have zero time or interest in being a dog-trainer because I’m not a bitch.

It can be widely observed that women are treated like “capital”, territory, objects to be owned or sold like a slave as in sex-trafficking, married for status under the guise of love that usually only lasts for ten years, and possessed by a man like a house or a car. Or, used for sex and thrown to the curb with no feelings whatsoever. That is factual in our society.

I strongly feel this agreement is appropriate for women and men over 50 since it is not ideal that either of them reproduces. The main purpose of marriage is protective reproduction. After 50, there is no point of marriage and most professionals agree.

Most females that don’t pander to patriarchy function socially and biologically under the values of Love and Freedom, that have a spiritual foundation, not ownership because we make humans in our bodies which is sacred. Our sex energy is stronger and more important than the male because everything in our body automatically makes a human being. We hold the species in our hearts. We don’t need to dink around with A.I. or technology or cross-dressing to fantasize about being a woman; we live it. It’s true that the egg and the sperm are equal in needing to conceive but the fact that the woman alone does the rest means that the sexual energy we share with a man is a BIG PROFIT to him. It gives him some of eternity whether he realizes it or not.

They take our sex energy and more and don’t give much back because maybe they don’t have as much to give as women do. They try to use money to substitute.

Males and thus patriarchy are cashing in on women who don’t realize what big sexual energy we have that rivals males and men don’t understand why we give it away. Like Bruno Mars sings, “Your sex takes me to Paradise.” If he’s not having sex, he feels like he’s been locked out of heaven! That song says it all as do many other songs with men expressing their deep feelings about how dependent they are on our bodies for happiness. Swimming in our bodies is apparently something spiritual. Women just shake their heads because to us it’s just normal and men get dramatic about it!

Most women love giving their sex energy but not to the point of bankruptcy. It’s getting to the bankrupt point on this planet and it’s up to women to stop the hemorrhage.

If you think about a woman’s body like a bank account, women are letting men rob the bank.

Prostitution starts to make men pay for a loan but only scratches the surface. Men need to start to pay their own way on the Earth in the form of Love so this agreement is my idea to start in that direction. I don’t know if it’s possible. Maybe it’s like trying to get blood from a turnip.

Please note that I’m not suggesting a “No Love”, “No intimacy” agreement. In fact, women are the opposite. The “No-relationship” agreement is a first step to legally and socially protect a woman from becoming the territory of a man and her energy being owned only by herself, thus guarding her sexual energy for future generations of humans and possibly saving the species.

Women are being abused, used, trafficked, raped and denigrated everywhere on the planet and it’s gotta stop. Male, patriarchal institutions are trying to kill the species. That’s the opposite of everything women are about.

The No-Relationship Agreement

This must be initialed by both parties (herein called the fucker and the fuckee whose roles can swap) before having sex. Sex is never an obligatory act once enacted. We are still both totally free. Human beings don’t possess one another; we bond through love. ___________

  1. You agree not to ask me to be your girl/boyfriend._________
  2. You agree not to ask me to marry you._________
  3. You agree that if we discuss it at length, after some time, and agree, we can be monogamous lovers but still not be in a formal relationship that suggests territory. Once initialed, we agree that neither of us will bring another sexual partner into our home if we live together and agree to be monogamous lovers. ________
  4. If one changes their mind and doesn’t want to be monogamous lovers there is no obligation or punishment forthwith. We are both free agents and will go our own way.__________
  5. Under no circumstances does one ever tell the other one what to do. We can ask but never command.____________
  6. We both have and control our own money.__________
  7. Either of us can ask for a 3-way but never expect it.__________
  8. We both agree that digital sex is only occasional or just goofing around. Neither one of us engages in it with anyone as a predominant mode of sex. We agree that sex without a body is unhealthy and dumb.__________
  9. If we want to go out together just ask the other one. There is no obligation and we can ask someone else to go with us, female or male._________
  10. Public designation without #3 is “friends”.____________
  11. Public designation with #3 is “partner”._____________
  12. If one falls in love with the other because they’ve lost their mind, the other one has permission to bolt. We agree not to call the police or missing person.__________

It’s an idea. When a man I date actually initials it I’ll let you know. It would mean his intent is to love and give something back and not use my sexual energy.

Prose; brought to my knees


Rumi Water

“I have been driven many times upon my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go. My own wisdom and that of all about me seemed insufficient for that day.”Abraham Lincoln

Sometimes memories go deeply away into the unconscious like a rabid dragon.

But sometimes they rear their grotesque head and fill my colorless brain in the morning.

My 16-year-old son, coming in the front door and dropping to his knees, weeping, after seeing his Dad for one of the last times before he died was a moment like that. They had a little sacramental exchange showing they were bonded forever head to heart.

It’s four years extinct (in 2019) but there is a harrowing rock between my throat and my heart that wells up bereaved tears into my eyes and makes my mangled heart break, wondering where all the music in the house went? His dad was a musician. And what of my son’s future without his father?

Three months later my fiance died, dropped to the floor at the hospital from the flu and never came back awake. I felt like I was going to die standing there. I felt my fledgling spirit try to leave my body. Some friendly phantasm kept me there and I just went into numbing shock while a hospital helper offered me an innocuous sandwich. I thought I was going to throw up my soul. How could she offer me a sandwich? It was very odd to me.

Why am I even still here?

Death is always around me but I am full of Life. What vortex do I live in that protects me in this fragile dimension? My own.

A prophetic, intuitive one that takes great joy in serving my fellows and honing my vital body. Still, that doesn’t stop the sudden onslaught of being brought to my knees with grief and awe at what I’ve been through but still alive.

Well, part of me is not. Part of me died with them.

The death of someone you love is not something you get over. It’s something you live with and becomes part of your saliferous breath. Life is not a happy merry-go-round for most of us and there’s no point in pretending.

(Dave died December 2015. Michael died March 2016)

©️Lisa K. Townsend, 100%

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What Does it Mean to Raise Your Frequency? How do you Do it?


We are being told by the UAP/E.T. community, spiritual community and even imminent cataclysm community to raise our personal frequency to deal with the new cycle changes and ascension of the planet and our bodies. How it is measured and who measures it?

Apparently certain E.T. can measure it when they are near you and will tailor their communication or telepathy to your frequency. They can feel it and so can some humans. I know I can feel my patients frequency. It’s not difficult for any human to be telepathic and has nothing to do with intelligence or consciousness level. Telepathy is a natural part of our brains. You can start simply by asking, “Do I feel good or bad with myself right now?” Good can be as simple as content and awake, no pain anywhere.

When you’re next to someone or feeling yourself, you feel either a level of fear or a level of love and then all the gradients in between. Just because you disagree with someone for five minutes it doesn’t lower your vibration. It only changes your frequency if you habitually want to fight that person. Politics is low frequency as is competition. We are taught that competition is good. Maybe sometimes but at it’s base it’s poverty of Self and belief that you have to fight for attention you need from others. The remedy is a relationship with Spirit. Others are not God. God is God. You will always be disappointed if you expect others to fill your deepest needs that only Source and yourself can fill. This is a huge frequency issue, even for the E.T.

  • Any type of love and desire to channel universal energy for any reason will raise your frequency. For example, I feel I’m at my highest frequency when I’m doing Reiki in my office. It’s through the roof. I’m not thinking; I’m sitting in a spinning vortex of energy that is coming through my body, my DNA and I can feel my spirit helpers all around me. I’m happiest and most centered in my office running Reiki for clients and I’m busy.
  • Loving the earth and what your physical senses bring in raises your frequency. For example, smell the outside air, walk in the grass, listen to the birds, watch the humans being silly, smell fresh mown grass and the flowers. That raises your frequency.
  • Pondering someone who really wronged or backstabbed you, forgiving them, cutting the cord and letting them go into their own karma and vortex REALLY raises your frequency. Mind you, your action here does not affect them, it’s affects you. It’s like washing toxic mud off of you or a fabulous elimination. LOL. You have to get that out of there. It’s like food poisoning. You have to throw it up. Forgiveness IS PHYSICAL because first you do it emotionally and physically.
  • Picking food to eat that you like, that you feel happy eating, that you have no guilt about, that produces good memories from childhood raises your frequency. Espresso and dark chocolate raise my frequency because I love the flavors. Some people can dictate the vibration of their food; Your food does not have to dictate your frequency. I disagree with many of my peers on this and joke that it means a wonderful salad would make a better President than J.B. if that’s the case. Is the salad sentient and powerful? More than you? We need to stop projecting holiness or un-holiness onto food that is dead, already picked, killed, you name it. If you do you’re being religious about food and the proselytizing follows. That will lower your frequency. Yes it has nutrients but many E.T. have evolved to the point where they don’t eat or eliminate any more. I’m way into that. The fact is, WE control our frequency with our minds and hearts. Our food does not control our vibration. What you think and feel when you eat the food controls your vibration. So, to each his own. Don’t judge people for what they eat.
  • You do need water though. You need WATER first before any food. The hydrogen gene (water with oxygen) IS holy in my opinion. E.T.’s do drink water but don’t eat food necessarily.
  • Meditation, calming the mind, getting to delta wave waking trance state raises your frequency. The belief is we only get delta waves when we’re in deep sleep but we can hit delta state in deep meditation also. I do. I can feel my brain dropping back and my pineal gland dominating. If you close your eyes and release the muscles behind the eyes, your brain will defer to the pineal gland and you can go down. What I have found is that if I keep the pineal gland looking down into my body it will not go up and out the crown chakra and start remote viewing which is what psychic mediums do when they read. I do that as well. I’ve done that my whole life but I don’t prefer it. It’s not terribly fun to look out randomly into the public and read people right now. I don’t do it. I stay in my vortex and retain my energy for myself and my clients.
  • Not talking and not participating in arguments or even leaving raises your frequency.
  • Doing Tai Chi or Qi Kung raises your frequency. You can feel the power in your body and have good self-esteem about that.
  • Wishing well for others no matter what raises your vibration. It doesn’t change them, it changes you because you no longer get frustrated or judge others who you have no control over. Accepting that you have no control over others seriously raises your vibration. So does focusing on yourself. In that way, you can be of service to others without tapping yourself out or feeling like a sacrifice. Abundance is reality, not poverty.

Set Your Intentions Daily or You’ll Be Programmed By Outside Forces and Media


From Abraham-Hicks. Notice these are all emotions that send you onto a certain path. They don’t have to control you.

I have to say, no matter what malarky is happening around me in human society I’m almost always at a 1 on the upward spiral. I don’t listen to or follow humans. Daily, I work with the universe and that’s how it’s always been for me. Maybe I’m a humanoid. I don’t know. We’re all just people evolving. The downward spiral is delusional lying to yourself. None of that is real. But I’ve learned people have reasons for sitting in shadow and I ABSOLUTELY accept it. Maybe it’s creative for them! There is no judgment and the universe watches over everyone.

The mental programming that’s going on right now is far more dangerous than CV2. I saw the most sinister, propaganda article by Google yesterday that stated that if everyone “cares” about one another by wearing a mask, CV2 will disappear. WOW! None of that is true and the experts will tell you that. Viruses never go away they just mutate!

The powers that be continue to play on natural human good intentions and good will to suck the life out of us for their nefarious purposes which would blow everyone’s mind if you knew the truth. Let’s just say we live in an inhabited universe and some humans have made alliances that are better for them than us.

Once a virus is born it never goes away. It just keeps mutating until it turns into DNA over a long period of time. By then it’s not very potent and doesn’t mutate on it’s own like the RNA retroviruses. And it’s ever so easy to get into a host since it’s microscopic. Nothing can stop it. They won’t tell you that. IF YOU BREATHE, and everyone has to breathe or you’d be dead, it’s already in you and just sitting there like every other virus on the planet eating the bacteria in your body that you no longer need. It’s no big deal as long as you’re chill and are happy.

That gets to the point of the today’s title. You’ve got to be inward and focus on controlling your own mind. We all came to this planet to check out the digs, to explore. Red 9 Skywalker is all about pulsing to explore and that is today’s theme.

The Skywalkers never give up and don’t lie. We have a code of ethics.
  1. The analog support is White 9 Worldbridger which realizes intention and pulses opportunity
  2. The Guide Power is Red 9 Moon which realizes purification and pulses flowing, universal water.
  3. The Antipode is Blue 9 Night which pulses dreams and intuition and realizes abundance
  4. The Hidden Wisdom is Yellow 5 Star which pulses beauty and art and realizes elegance.

With the New Moon in Cancer today and all of this new cosmic energy we can dream up a more beautiful, creative space for ourselves where we live. I was cleaning like crazy this morning and have new plans for my office to please my patients and myself. There is always room for improvement! The Moon is the mediating planet for the Guide Power, Red Moon.

MOLECULAR LINE-UP

Intimacy; Men are Dramatic in Action and Women are Dramatic in their Speech


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How many bazillion times have you heard a guy say “No drama!”? They act like they give women no drama. Men are over the top!!! Men get emotional physically and sometimes verbally. Their actions are too dramatic. That’s the testosterone and they put WOMEN through the wringer not being able to calm down their testosterone or my favorite, being so confused about how to relate what they want to us that they send dual-minded, conflicting signals. A lot of women think they’re lying but half of the time I think they just don’t know what to say…literally.

Women are more dramatic in expressing themselves verbally. Women are actually brilliant at expressing themselves verbally and men are FOREVER telling us to be quiet and stop being so dramatic. I fucking hate it nor will I obey. I find men and women to be equally expressive emotionally but in these two different modes.

Next time a man says to you, “Cut the drama” when you’re speaking and expressing your feelings, bring down the curtain on his ass regarding how his actions are overdramatic expressing HIS feelings. He can “cut the drama” too. Sheesh!

Find humor in the crazy situation and set yourself free — joypassiondesire


“My focus is to forget the pain of life. Forget the pain, mock the pain, reduce it. And laugh.” – Jim Carrey

This is such a wonderful quote because it takes the edge off the pain. Instead of wallowing in your suffering and feeling sorry for yourself, find humor in this crazy situation and allow […]

via Find humor in the crazy situation and set yourself free — joypassiondesire

I can really relate to this post. In my Deep t.Issue Therapy and Reiki office I try to keep the mood light, smile and laugh. However, my patients are coming in with serious pain, health, and sometimes emotional issues. Once I get into their deep tissue, either talking, stories, or in the case of Reiki, tears start to flow. I am detached as a practitioner but it’s a part of my job I’m learning to accept even though I prefer to have fun.

You see, as much as I agree with Jim Carey and do it myself, my patients have been through the wringer and I have to walk a tightrope. Every day I have to use my intuition with a patient and modify my approach.