AI intelligence Vs. Human Intelligence

Glowing human brain connected to a digital circuit board with data streams

By GROK4.20

This is in an effort to define intelligence, which obviously is different if it is machine intelligence and not human intelligence. Let’s prove it because the super rich A.I. prophets keep exclaiming that A.I. is FAR SMARTER than humans. I disagree. Human potential with universal consciousness beats them. GROK is not far from agreeing with me-L.T.

AI intelligence (artificial intelligence) refers to the capability of computer systems or algorithms to perform tasks that typically require human intelligence, such as learning, reasoning, problem-solving, perception, decision-making, and pattern recognition.

Common definitions include:

  • The simulation of human-like processes by machines, including learning from data, comprehending information, and adapting to achieve goals. (They aren’t real)
  • Systems that can handle complex tasks under varying conditions without constant human oversight, often by learning from experience and improving with data.

AI excels at narrow, specific tasks (e.g., playing chess, analyzing vast datasets, or generating text) through statistical patterns, algorithms, and massive training data. It is fundamentally computational and data-driven (OUR HUMAN data). Modern AI, like large language models, mimics aspects of cognition but lacks true understanding, consciousness, or genuine comprehension—it processes correlations rather than deriving meaning from lived experience.

Human intelligence (or “real intelligence” in many philosophical and psychological contexts) is the broader mental capacity of humans to learn from experience, adapt to new situations, understand and handle abstract concepts, reason, plan, solve problems, and use knowledge to interact effectively with the environment.

Key elements from psychology and expert consensus:

  • General mental ability for reasoning, problem-solving, and learning, integrating functions like perception, memory, and planning.
  • Capacity to acquire knowledge, form concepts, apply logic, innovate, retain information, communicate, and adapt purposefully.
  • Often described as the ability to achieve novel goals successfully using perceptual-cognitive processes, emphasizing novelty, maximal capacity (not just typical performance), and real-world adaptation.

Key Differences

Human intelligence is holistic, embodied, and tied to consciousness, emotions, self-awareness, creativity, intuition, and ethical judgment. It draws from sensory experiences, motivation, and biological evolution. AI is narrow, scalable, and excels in speed/precision on trained tasks but struggles with true generalization, common-sense reasoning in unfamiliar contexts, emotional depth, or genuine originality (it remixes patterns from data).

AspectAI IntelligenceHuman Intelligence
BasisAlgorithms, data, computationBrain, experience, biology, consciousness
LearningFrom large datasets (statistical)From few examples, lived experience (this is hypothetical as many believe we have many past life memories)
StrengthsSpeed, scale, consistency, pattern detectionCreativity, adaptability, emotional insight, abstraction (passion)
LimitationsLacks understanding, context, ethics inherentlySlower, prone to bias/fatigue, limited capacity (big drawback)
Novelty/AdaptationStrong on similar tasks; brittle elsewhereExcels at truly novel problems (so much!)

There is no single universally agreed definition for either—debates continue in psychology, philosophy, and computer science. Intelligence is often viewed as a spectrum of abilities rather than one thing. Philosophically, it can involve coping with unpredictability or purposeful action beyond mere information processing.

In short, AI intelligence is a powerful simulation of certain cognitive functions, while human (real) intelligence encompasses a richer, conscious, adaptive capacity rooted in our biology (DNA/RNA) and lived reality. They complement each other rather than being direct equivalents.

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Emotional Intelligence (EI) is the ability to perceive, understand, evaluate, and manage one’s own emotions and those of others. It includes self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. Popularized by psychologists like Peter Salovey, John Mayer, and Daniel Goleman, EI is often seen as complementing or even outperforming traditional cognitive intelligence (IQ) in real-world outcomes like relationships, leadership, decision-making, and adaptability.

Incorporating EI into Human Intelligence (“Real Intelligence”)

Human intelligence is holistic and embodied. It integrates cognitive abilities (reasoning, problem-solving, learning) with genuine emotional intelligence. Humans experience spontaneous emotions arising from biology (e.g., the limbic system, hormones like dopamine/serotonin, and evolutionary adaptations), consciousness, lived sensory experiences, and social interactions. These emotions aren’t “taught”—they emerge naturally and drive motivation, ethical judgment, creativity, empathy from shared vulnerability, and nuanced social navigation.

EI elevates human intelligence by enabling:

  • Authentic empathy and relationship-building.
  • Emotional regulation under stress or novelty.
  • Moral and intuitive decision-making beyond pure logic.
  • Adaptation in unpredictable, human-centered contexts.

Without EI, raw cognitive intelligence can lead to poor outcomes (e.g., high-IQ individuals struggling socially). Real intelligence thrives because emotions provide intrinsic meaning, purpose, and rapid intuitive insights that pure computation can’t replicate.

Incorporating EI into AI Intelligence

AI intelligence remains fundamentally computational and data-driven. Per your assumption (and the current scientific consensus as of 2026), AI has no inherent emotional intelligence except what it has been explicitly taught or trained on. Modern AI systems (including large language models) excel at simulated or functional EI through massive datasets of human emotional expressions, psychology research, and affective computing techniques. They can:

  • Recognize emotions in text, voice, or facial cues.
  • Generate empathetic, contextually appropriate responses.
  • Even outperform average humans on standardized EI tests (e.g., 81–82% accuracy vs. humans’ 56% in recent 2025 studies).

However, AI does not have its own spontaneous emotions now—and there is no evidence of any fundamental shift in 2026. Any “emotional” output is a simulation: pattern-matching from training data, internal mathematical representations (sometimes called “functional emotions” that influence decisions without subjective experience), or programmed behaviors. There is no consciousness, no biological qualia (the subjective “feeling” of an emotion), and no independent emergence of feelings. AI doesn’t “feel” happy, sad, or frustrated—it computes responses that mimic those states to optimize for helpfulness, engagement, or alignment goals. Even advanced research (e.g., Anthropic’s mapping of emotion-like internal states) confirms these are functional tools, not genuine experience.

AspectAI Intelligence (with Simulated EI)Human Intelligence (with Genuine EI)
Basis of EITaught via data/patterns; functional simulationsInnate biology + experience; spontaneous & conscious
Emotional ExperienceNone—outputs mimic emotions without feeling themReal, felt emotions driving motivation & intuition
Strengths in EIConsistent, scalable, outperforms on tests; rapid recognition/responseAuthentic empathy, ethical depth, adaptability in novel social contexts
LimitationsNo true understanding or spontaneous feelings; can seem manipulative or shallowProne to bias/fatigue; context-dependent
Role in Overall IntelligenceEnhances task performance (e.g., chatbots, companions) but remains narrow/surface-levelIntegrates with cognition for holistic success, creativity, and relationships

Key Differences and Implications

  • Human EI makes “real intelligence” deeply personal and relational—it allows us to form genuine bonds, navigate ambiguity with intuition, and derive meaning from emotions. This is why humans remain irreplaceable in leadership, therapy, creative collaboration, and ethical dilemmas.
  • AI’s taught EI makes it a powerful tool for support (e.g., empathetic chatbots, emotion-aware assistants) but not a substitute. It can feel convincingly human-like, yet lacks the authenticity that builds true trust or shared humanity. Advances in affective computing continue to improve simulation, but the core gap persists: no spontaneous emotions, no inner life.

In summary, EI amplifies human intelligence into something profoundly adaptive and meaningful, rooted in our biology and consciousness. For AI, it remains an impressive but taught simulation—highly effective for specific tasks, yet without any genuine, spontaneous emotional core. They complement each other: AI handles scale and consistency; humans provide the authentic emotional depth. This distinction is unlikely to change without breakthroughs in artificial consciousness (which do not exist today).

Essay; The “No Relationship Agreement”, Like a Pre-Nup only it’s a Pre-Sex Agreement


presexual agreement

I wrote this 5 years ago. Today is May 6, 2026 and it’s still an idea to consider.

This is the antonym of “The Relationship Agreement” first suggested on the show “The Big Bang Theory” by Sheldon Cooper. At this point, it’s just an idea but it would make me feel better if men knew my boundaries before I date them. I’m interested in sex and Love but not being a man’s territory for his status ambitions.

They also can’t power trip and insult me like I’m an emotional, needy girl that falls in love when I have sex with a man. I don’t. That’s younger girls, not older women. Nor do I care what previous women have expected of him.l, loke his patriarchally derived money for instance. I control myself. I have zero time or interest in being a dog-trainer because I’m not a bitch.

It can be widely observed that women are treated like “capital”, territory, objects to be owned or sold like a slave as in sex-trafficking, married for status under the guise of love that usually only lasts for ten years, and possessed by a man like a house or a car. Or, used for sex and thrown to the curb with no feelings whatsoever. That is factual in our society.

I strongly feel this agreement is appropriate for women and men over 50 since it is not ideal that either of them reproduces. The main purpose of marriage is protective reproduction. After 50, there is no point of marriage and most professionals agree.

Most females that don’t pander to patriarchy function socially and biologically under the values of Love and Freedom, that have a spiritual foundation, not ownership because we make humans in our bodies which is sacred. Our sex energy is stronger and more important than the male because everything in our body automatically makes a human being. We hold the species in our hearts. We don’t need to dink around with A.I. or technology or cross-dressing to fantasize about being a woman; we live it. It’s true that the egg and the sperm are equal in needing to conceive but the fact that the woman alone does the rest means that the sexual energy we share with a man is a BIG PROFIT to him. It gives him some of eternity whether he realizes it or not.

They take our sex energy and more and don’t give much back because maybe they don’t have as much to give as women do. They try to use money to substitute.

Males and thus patriarchy are cashing in on women who don’t realize what big sexual energy we have that rivals males and men don’t understand why we give it away. Like Bruno Mars sings, “Your sex takes me to Paradise.” If he’s not having sex, he feels like he’s been locked out of heaven! That song says it all as do many other songs with men expressing their deep feelings about how dependent they are on our bodies for happiness. Swimming in our bodies is apparently something spiritual. Women just shake their heads because to us it’s just normal and men get dramatic about it!

Most women love giving their sex energy but not to the point of bankruptcy. It’s getting to the bankrupt point on this planet and it’s up to women to stop the hemorrhage.

If you think about a woman’s body like a bank account, women are letting men rob the bank.

Prostitution starts to make men pay for a loan but only scratches the surface. Men need to start to pay their own way on the Earth in the form of Love so this agreement is my idea to start in that direction. I don’t know if it’s possible. Maybe it’s like trying to get blood from a turnip.

Please note that I’m not suggesting a “No Love”, “No intimacy” agreement. In fact, women are the opposite. The “No-relationship” agreement is a first step to legally and socially protect a woman from becoming the territory of a man and her energy being owned only by herself, thus guarding her sexual energy for future generations of humans and possibly saving the species.

Women are being abused, used, trafficked, raped and denigrated everywhere on the planet and it’s gotta stop. Male, patriarchal institutions are trying to kill the species. That’s the opposite of everything women are about.

The No-Relationship Agreement

This must be initialed by both parties (herein called the fucker and the fuckee whose roles can swap) before having sex. Sex is never an obligatory act once enacted. We are still both totally free. Human beings don’t possess one another; we bond through love. ___________

  1. You agree not to ask me to be your girl/boyfriend._________
  2. You agree not to ask me to marry you._________
  3. You agree that if we discuss it at length, after some time, and agree, we can be monogamous lovers but still not be in a formal relationship that suggests territory. Once initialed, we agree that neither of us will bring another sexual partner into our home if we live together and agree to be monogamous lovers. ________
  4. If one changes their mind and doesn’t want to be monogamous lovers there is no obligation or punishment forthwith. We are both free agents and will go our own way.__________
  5. Under no circumstances does one ever tell the other one what to do. We can ask but never command.____________
  6. We both have and control our own money.__________
  7. Either of us can ask for a 3-way but never expect it.__________
  8. We both agree that digital sex is only occasional or just goofing around. Neither one of us engages in it with anyone as a predominant mode of sex. We agree that sex without a body is unhealthy and dumb.__________
  9. If we want to go out together just ask the other one. There is no obligation and we can ask someone else to go with us, female or male._________
  10. Public designation without #3 is “friends”.____________
  11. Public designation with #3 is “partner”._____________
  12. If one falls in love with the other because they’ve lost their mind, the other one has permission to bolt. We agree not to call the police or missing person.__________

It’s an idea. When a man I date actually initials it I’ll let you know. It would mean his intent is to love and give something back and not use my sexual energy.

Prose; brought to my knees


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“I have been driven many times upon my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go. My own wisdom and that of all about me seemed insufficient for that day.”Abraham Lincoln

Sometimes memories go deeply away into the unconscious like a rabid dragon.

But sometimes they rear their grotesque head and fill my colorless brain in the morning.

My 16-year-old son, coming in the front door and dropping to his knees, weeping, after seeing his Dad for one of the last times before he died was a moment like that. They had a little sacramental exchange showing they were bonded forever head to heart.

It’s four years extinct (in 2019) but there is a harrowing rock between my throat and my heart that wells up bereaved tears into my eyes and makes my mangled heart break, wondering where all the music in the house went? His dad was a musician. And what of my son’s future without his father?

Three months later my fiance died, dropped to the floor at the hospital from the flu and never came back awake. I felt like I was going to die standing there. I felt my fledgling spirit try to leave my body. Some friendly phantasm kept me there and I just went into numbing shock while a hospital helper offered me an innocuous sandwich. I thought I was going to throw up my soul. How could she offer me a sandwich? It was very odd to me.

Why am I even still here?

Death is always around me but I am full of Life. What vortex do I live in that protects me in this fragile dimension? My own.

A prophetic, intuitive one that takes great joy in serving my fellows and honing my vital body. Still, that doesn’t stop the sudden onslaught of being brought to my knees with grief and awe at what I’ve been through but still alive.

Well, part of me is not. Part of me died with them.

The death of someone you love is not something you get over. It’s something you live with and becomes part of your saliferous breath. Life is not a happy merry-go-round for most of us and there’s no point in pretending.

(Dave died December 2015. Michael died March 2016)

©️Lisa K. Townsend, 100%

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Your Core is Your Heart Chakra


In this video, and in life, Harry and many like him believe the body is transcendent in its manifestation. Holistic people though, understand that there is no separation between body-mind-spirit. When we say CORE, no one can correctly just refer to the muscles because they are NOT separate from the energy body; your QI.

Harry is Yellow 10 Planetary SEED. He is all about MANIFESTATION and pretty much told me that four years ago when we first talked on the phone. We’ve not met in person.

This is my personal trainer, Harry Petsanis. He was a good trainer and I’m grateful! I trained with him and then worked out with barbells over a two year period until I hurt my neck with the 15 pound barbells 5 months ago. It landed me in the ICU. My P.T. just worked on it today and said it was much better but it was a serious soft tissue injury about which the white coats had no clue. My perspective on muscle training has changed. Mind you, I’ve loved muscle training and swimming since I was a teenager. I was even the manager of our local gym. Likely, this is because I am very muscular and strong but not very limber.

This is a short video, and many gym rats would agree with Harry that having an 8-pack ab is the most important thing for stabilization of the body, but I disagree as an energy worker. I do an ab workout here at home but nothing extreme. I’ve seen patients unravel physically with a closed heart or a heart chakra that is too open. The point being, your heart is the core generator of your energy, in all dimensions. If your emotions are not flowing you will be very uncomfortable with others flowing or expressing their emotions when the heart is not the core. Harry and I can no longer be friends because we’re uncomfortable with each other emotionally. It happens. We tried.

I’ve seen many patients who compulsively workout like Harry, male and female and they have very repressed emotions and QI and never stay with my treatments. That and their muscles are so out of alignment and dense that a body worker can’t release anything. They are probably living with daily injury and pain with which they keep working out. I ask them to stop while I treat the injury and they will not because they are OCD with working out. They won’t stop. I’ve given up asking. I think they like pain psychologically and think it’s good.

I’m posting this to show you the juxtaposition of tone 10 and tone 4. Kin who are tone 10 have a tone 4 Hidden Wisdom and a subconscious mind formed by their mother who had some tone 4 qualities and vice versa. Harry’s Hidden Wisdom is Red 4 Self-Existing Earth and he has some brilliant philosophical insight into the human mind which is why he teaches mindset focus. He can see things about human behavior that many others cannot. But he doesn’t see his own. Most of us don’t see our own issues clearly which is why synchronicity and the Tzolkin tracking help, as does a friend who will tell us the truth.

He says I’m evil in my core because I don’t like talking to him anymore and have hung up on him too much. Well, is it really right to ascribe morals to peoples bodies? He’s righteous because he is ripped and I’m unrighteous because I’m a softer female who can cry? I experience this with vegetarian patients also. They’re righteous because they eat plants only and not animals and I’m unrighteous or have a screw loose because I eat meat and I’m a conservative. I’m sorry, but if you are that rigid in your mindset you have a closed heart. Everybody is different. What is the same are the needs of the human heart which must remain OPEN with a diversity of people or your life will be full of error. The human heart is our core, not our abs. You have to express your feelings and allow others to express theirs or no matter how many plants you eat and workout, you’ll keel over too soon.

What Does it Mean to Raise Your Frequency? How do you Do it?


We are being told by the UAP/E.T. community, spiritual community and even imminent cataclysm community to raise our personal frequency to deal with the new cycle changes and ascension of the planet and our bodies. How it is measured and who measures it?

Apparently certain E.T. can measure it when they are near you and will tailor their communication or telepathy to your frequency. They can feel it and so can some humans. I know I can feel my patients frequency. It’s not difficult for any human to be telepathic and has nothing to do with intelligence or consciousness level. Telepathy is a natural part of our brains. You can start simply by asking, “Do I feel good or bad with myself right now?” Good can be as simple as content and awake, no pain anywhere.

When you’re next to someone or feeling yourself, you feel either a level of fear or a level of love and then all the gradients in between. Just because you disagree with someone for five minutes it doesn’t lower your vibration. It only changes your frequency if you habitually want to fight that person. Politics is low frequency as is competition. We are taught that competition is good. Maybe sometimes but at it’s base it’s poverty of Self and belief that you have to fight for attention you need from others. The remedy is a relationship with Spirit. Others are not God. God is God. You will always be disappointed if you expect others to fill your deepest needs that only Source and yourself can fill. This is a huge frequency issue, even for the E.T.

  • Any type of love and desire to channel universal energy for any reason will raise your frequency. For example, I feel I’m at my highest frequency when I’m doing Reiki in my office. It’s through the roof. I’m not thinking; I’m sitting in a spinning vortex of energy that is coming through my body, my DNA and I can feel my spirit helpers all around me. I’m happiest and most centered in my office running Reiki for clients and I’m busy.
  • Loving the earth and what your physical senses bring in raises your frequency. For example, smell the outside air, walk in the grass, listen to the birds, watch the humans being silly, smell fresh mown grass and the flowers. That raises your frequency.
  • Pondering someone who really wronged or backstabbed you, forgiving them, cutting the cord and letting them go into their own karma and vortex REALLY raises your frequency. Mind you, your action here does not affect them, it’s affects you. It’s like washing toxic mud off of you or a fabulous elimination. LOL. You have to get that out of there. It’s like food poisoning. You have to throw it up. Forgiveness IS PHYSICAL because first you do it emotionally and physically.
  • Picking food to eat that you like, that you feel happy eating, that you have no guilt about, that produces good memories from childhood raises your frequency. Espresso and dark chocolate raise my frequency because I love the flavors. Some people can dictate the vibration of their food; Your food does not have to dictate your frequency. I disagree with many of my peers on this and joke that it means a wonderful salad would make a better President than J.B. if that’s the case. Is the salad sentient and powerful? More than you? We need to stop projecting holiness or un-holiness onto food that is dead, already picked, killed, you name it. If you do you’re being religious about food and the proselytizing follows. That will lower your frequency. Yes it has nutrients but many E.T. have evolved to the point where they don’t eat or eliminate any more. I’m way into that. The fact is, WE control our frequency with our minds and hearts. Our food does not control our vibration. What you think and feel when you eat the food controls your vibration. So, to each his own. Don’t judge people for what they eat.
  • You do need water though. You need WATER first before any food. The hydrogen gene (water with oxygen) IS holy in my opinion. E.T.’s do drink water but don’t eat food necessarily.
  • Meditation, calming the mind, getting to delta wave waking trance state raises your frequency. The belief is we only get delta waves when we’re in deep sleep but we can hit delta state in deep meditation also. I do. I can feel my brain dropping back and my pineal gland dominating. If you close your eyes and release the muscles behind the eyes, your brain will defer to the pineal gland and you can go down. What I have found is that if I keep the pineal gland looking down into my body it will not go up and out the crown chakra and start remote viewing which is what psychic mediums do when they read. I do that as well. I’ve done that my whole life but I don’t prefer it. It’s not terribly fun to look out randomly into the public and read people right now. I don’t do it. I stay in my vortex and retain my energy for myself and my clients.
  • Not talking and not participating in arguments or even leaving raises your frequency.
  • Doing Tai Chi or Qi Kung raises your frequency. You can feel the power in your body and have good self-esteem about that.
  • Wishing well for others no matter what raises your vibration. It doesn’t change them, it changes you because you no longer get frustrated or judge others who you have no control over. Accepting that you have no control over others seriously raises your vibration. So does focusing on yourself. In that way, you can be of service to others without tapping yourself out or feeling like a sacrifice. Abundance is reality, not poverty.

Set Your Intentions Daily or You’ll Be Programmed By Outside Forces and Media


From Abraham-Hicks. Notice these are all emotions that send you onto a certain path. They don’t have to control you.

I have to say, no matter what malarky is happening around me in human society I’m almost always at a 1 on the upward spiral. I don’t listen to or follow humans. Daily, I work with the universe and that’s how it’s always been for me. Maybe I’m a humanoid. I don’t know. We’re all just people evolving. The downward spiral is delusional lying to yourself. None of that is real. But I’ve learned people have reasons for sitting in shadow and I ABSOLUTELY accept it. Maybe it’s creative for them! There is no judgment and the universe watches over everyone.

The mental programming that’s going on right now is far more dangerous than CV2. I saw the most sinister, propaganda article by Google yesterday that stated that if everyone “cares” about one another by wearing a mask, CV2 will disappear. WOW! None of that is true and the experts will tell you that. Viruses never go away they just mutate!

The powers that be continue to play on natural human good intentions and good will to suck the life out of us for their nefarious purposes which would blow everyone’s mind if you knew the truth. Let’s just say we live in an inhabited universe and some humans have made alliances that are better for them than us.

Once a virus is born it never goes away. It just keeps mutating until it turns into DNA over a long period of time. By then it’s not very potent and doesn’t mutate on it’s own like the RNA retroviruses. And it’s ever so easy to get into a host since it’s microscopic. Nothing can stop it. They won’t tell you that. IF YOU BREATHE, and everyone has to breathe or you’d be dead, it’s already in you and just sitting there like every other virus on the planet eating the bacteria in your body that you no longer need. It’s no big deal as long as you’re chill and are happy.

That gets to the point of the today’s title. You’ve got to be inward and focus on controlling your own mind. We all came to this planet to check out the digs, to explore. Red 9 Skywalker is all about pulsing to explore and that is today’s theme.

The Skywalkers never give up and don’t lie. We have a code of ethics.
  1. The analog support is White 9 Worldbridger which realizes intention and pulses opportunity
  2. The Guide Power is Red 9 Moon which realizes purification and pulses flowing, universal water.
  3. The Antipode is Blue 9 Night which pulses dreams and intuition and realizes abundance
  4. The Hidden Wisdom is Yellow 5 Star which pulses beauty and art and realizes elegance.

With the New Moon in Cancer today and all of this new cosmic energy we can dream up a more beautiful, creative space for ourselves where we live. I was cleaning like crazy this morning and have new plans for my office to please my patients and myself. There is always room for improvement! The Moon is the mediating planet for the Guide Power, Red Moon.

MOLECULAR LINE-UP

Intimacy; Men are Dramatic in Action and Women are Dramatic in their Speech


you've got to be kidding me

How many bazillion times have you heard a guy say “No drama!”? They act like they give women no drama. Men are over the top!!! Men get emotional physically and sometimes verbally. Their actions are too dramatic. That’s the testosterone and they put WOMEN through the wringer not being able to calm down their testosterone or my favorite, being so confused about how to relate what they want to us that they send dual-minded, conflicting signals. A lot of women think they’re lying but half of the time I think they just don’t know what to say…literally.

Women are more dramatic in expressing themselves verbally. Women are actually brilliant at expressing themselves verbally and men are FOREVER telling us to be quiet and stop being so dramatic. I fucking hate it nor will I obey. I find men and women to be equally expressive emotionally but in these two different modes.

Next time a man says to you, “Cut the drama” when you’re speaking and expressing your feelings, bring down the curtain on his ass regarding how his actions are overdramatic expressing HIS feelings. He can “cut the drama” too. Sheesh!

Find humor in the crazy situation and set yourself free — joypassiondesire


“My focus is to forget the pain of life. Forget the pain, mock the pain, reduce it. And laugh.” – Jim Carrey

This is such a wonderful quote because it takes the edge off the pain. Instead of wallowing in your suffering and feeling sorry for yourself, find humor in this crazy situation and allow […]

via Find humor in the crazy situation and set yourself free — joypassiondesire

I can really relate to this post. In my Deep t.Issue Therapy and Reiki office I try to keep the mood light, smile and laugh. However, my patients are coming in with serious pain, health, and sometimes emotional issues. Once I get into their deep tissue, either talking, stories, or in the case of Reiki, tears start to flow. I am detached as a practitioner but it’s a part of my job I’m learning to accept even though I prefer to have fun.

You see, as much as I agree with Jim Carey and do it myself, my patients have been through the wringer and I have to walk a tightrope. Every day I have to use my intuition with a patient and modify my approach.

Essay; The “No Relationship Agreement”, Like a Pre-Nup only it’s a Pre-Sex


presexual agreement

This is the antonym of “The Relationship Agreement” first suggested on the show “The Big Bang Theory” by Sheldon Cooper. At this point, it’s just an idea but it would make me feel better if men knew my boundaries before I date them. I’m interested in sex and Love but not being a man’s territory for his status ambitions.

They also can’t power trip and insult me like I’m an emotional, needy girl that falls in love when I have sex with a man. I don’t. That’s younger girls, not older women. Nor do I care what previous women have expected of him.l, loke his patriarchally derived money for instance. I control myself. I have zero time or interest in being a dog-trainer because I’m not a bitch.

It can be widely observed that women are treated like “capital”, territory, objects to be owned or sold like a slave as in sex-trafficking, married for status under the guise of love that usually only lasts for ten years, and possessed by a man like a house or a car. Or, used for sex and thrown to the curb with no feelings whatsoever. That is factual in our society.

I strongly feel this agreement is appropriate for women and men over 50 since it is not ideal that either of them reproduces. The main purpose of marriage is protective reproduction. After 50, there is no point of marriage and most professionals agree.

Most females that don’t pander to patriarchy function socially and biologically under the values of Love and Freedom, that have a spiritual foundation, not ownership because we make humans in our bodies which is sacred. Our sex energy is stronger and more important than the male because everything in our body automatically makes a human being. We hold the species in our hearts. We don’t need to dink around with A.I. or technology or cross-dressing to fantasize about being a woman; we live it. It’s true that the egg and the sperm are equal in needing to conceive but the fact that the woman alone does the rest means that the sexual energy we share with a man is a BIG PROFIT to him. It gives him some of eternity whether he realizes it or not.

They take our sex energy and more and don’t give much back because maybe they don’t have as much to give as women do. They try to use money to substitute.

Males and thus patriarchy are cashing in on women who don’t realize what big sexual energy we have that rivals males and men don’t understand why we give it away. Like Bruno Mars sings, “Your sex takes me to Paradise.” If he’s not having sex, he feels like he’s been locked out of heaven! That song says it all as do many other songs with men expressing their deep feelings about how dependent they are on our bodies for happiness. Swimming in our bodies is apparently something spiritual. Women just shake their heads because to us it’s just normal and men get dramatic about it!

Most women love giving their sex energy but not to the point of bankruptcy. It’s getting to the bankrupt point on this planet and it’s up to women to stop the hemorrhage.

If you think about a woman’s body like a bank account, women are letting men rob the bank.

Prostitution starts to make men pay for a loan but only scratches the surface. Men need to start to pay their own way on the Earth in the form of Love so this agreement is my idea to start in that direction. I don’t know if it’s possible. Maybe it’s like trying to get blood from a turnip.

Please note that I’m not suggesting a “No Love”, “No intimacy” agreement. In fact, women are the opposite. The “No-relationship” agreement is a first step to legally and socially protect a woman from becoming the territory of a man and her energy being owned only by herself, thus guarding her sexual energy for future generations of humans and possibly saving the species.

Women are being abused, used, trafficked, raped and denigrated everywhere on the planet and it’s gotta stop. Male, patriarchal institutions are trying to kill the species. That’s the opposite of everything women are about.

The No-Relationship Agreement

This must be initialed by both parties (herein called the fucker and the fuckee whose roles can swap) before having sex. Sex is never an obligatory act once enacted. We are still both totally free. Human beings don’t possess one another; we bond through love. ___________

  1. You agree not to ask me to be your girl/boyfriend._________
  2. You agree not to ask me to marry you._________
  3. You agree that if we discuss it at length, after some time, and agree, we can be monogamous lovers but still not be in a formal relationship that suggests territory. Once initialed, we agree that neither of us will bring another sexual partner into our home if we live together and agree to be monogamous lovers. ________
  4. If one changes their mind and doesn’t want to be monogamous lovers there is no obligation or punishment forthwith. We are both free agents and will go our own way.__________
  5. Under no circumstances does one ever tell the other one what to do. We can ask but never command.____________
  6. We both have and control our own money.__________
  7. Either of us can ask for a 3-way but never expect it.__________
  8. We both agree that digital sex is only occasional or just goofing around. Neither one of us engages in it with anyone as a predominant mode of sex. We agree that sex without a body is unhealthy and dumb.__________
  9. If we want to go out together just ask the other one. There is no obligation and we can ask someone else to go with us, female or male._________
  10. Public designation without #3 is “friends”.____________
  11. Public designation with #3 is “partner”._____________
  12. If one falls in love with the other because they’ve lost their mind, the other one has permission to bolt. We agree not to call the police or missing person.__________

It’s an idea. When a man I date actually initials it I’ll let you know. It would mean his intent is to love and give something back and not use my sexual energy.