I don’t like bonding with men or marrying them. I’ve been married the average of three times. I tried. Marriage is like female slavery in patriarchy. Men always end up needing or wanting to SUBJUGATE a woman they are attracted to in some way. It’s lust, not love and marriage puts a seal of approval on a dominant man to dominate a woman when he’s just using her to not feel lonely. There is no love there and he sucks the life out of her even if he’s gone a lot.
The inequality is most women love easily. It comes naturally to us to be loving. It doesn’t to men. It comes very naturally to me to be loving to everyone and it does me in. I’ve learned to be more stern.
Marriage is FOR HIM, not her when she can no longer have children. Society has set it as a fake way for a man to look like he can be monogamous and not go after every blonde b…. in the alley with a nice ass. A fantasy of course. You’re supposed to RESPECT one another and be friends first.
The last thing intelligent women who are past fertility need is a husband. A friend yes! A lover who really loves her yes! But don’t expect him to only love you. Maybe or maybe not. You can never control a roving man wanting to be entertained who has his pick, married or not.
My passion is my work. I’m never lonely and love to be alone. I want to be financially independent and will never use a man for money again because we can no longer have children to support. But they always do usually have more money than us. That’s a statistic. If there is mutual business, that can be negotiated. Money is a business tool NOT POWER.
The problem is they want to MARRY as a way to control a woman, so he has this fake idea that means she will always be there at his beck and call for what he needs. How f…… insulting when he is not doing that for her. We aren’t each other’s slave.
The denigrating of personal relationship by the patriarchal system has tanked the population and created deep enmity between men and women. Patriarchy has made everything transactional which is lust and earthly power, not love.
Most women take care of themselves. Most men don’t and they continue to want a second mother. I don’t mean taking care of just their body. I mean taking care of their own soul. Fix it guys. Women need to be loved, have friendship, and be independent, not feed their souls to you just to have you abandon and throw it to the curb.
Synchronicity is the Source of Consciousness 