Remember that the DETAILS of how you play out the script of your destiny is completely yours but the lessons and people you run into are not. That is synchronicity. Meaning when you come upon a destiny event or person in time, it can go either way, it’s your choice. We are not controlled.
So, honoring those destructive choices in others, especially people we love breaks my heart. My sister is an active alcoholic, always has been, and it’s effect on my 85 year old mom and me is very sad. It has to be one othe most heartbreaking ever.
This is my oldest sister who I adored as a little kid. She was a great person and looked out for me as a teenager. Then it stopped. She had to party. I was born sober and I had to explore. It’s not in my brain to do drugs.
When someone we love walks a different path than us, yet we were close, it’s a ripping of “what could have been”. What could I have known better that I’ve missed now? I had no control over her choices. My mom thought she did and turned into a serial codependent. I left and went ahead with my life.
Those who walk in dark and self-destruction are still held in grace by God. I really believe that. They will go to their souls rest and wake to a new lesson, a new place to continue their destiny. 💔🙏
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”

