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Essay: Heartset; Love and Lust are a Two-Way Street (Freebie)


Both women and men love and lust. Women don’t just attract men with their loving relationship skills and men don’t just attract women with their constantly lusty energy. There are plenty of women who no longer believe in love and have just given in to the lust paradigm of hook-ups, use, and throw which is what most men engender. So the women just go along with it having experienced too many men who don’t seem to want to love or don’t know how to. The women are busier making money than teaching the men about feelings or loving them in friendship.

There are also plenty of loving, sensitive men who do want intimacy, bonding, and a monogamous relationship. The key is obviously to find the person who wants the same thing as you. And it’s hard for men to trust women when many women are very bitchy or downright abusive and mean. They don’t take care of themselves and are in no mood to be loving to a man.

It does seem to generally be true that men are very, very comfortable lusting after women and just going forward with that and wishing for the woman to cooperate. It’s also generally true that women are more relational and loving and draw men in with that warmth going forward and wish a man would cooperate with that. The problem is, most women will not just cooperate with pure lust in a relationship with no bonding and most men will not just cooperate with pure loving relational energy in a relationship with bonding. There has to be compromise.

The truth is men sorely, sorely need someone who they can express their deepest feelings with and feel safe; someone who will be their friend with whom they can talk. They need a relationship far more than a woman. That can happen with a kind woman. The truth is women sorely, sorely need hot, great sex that fulfills their physical needs with a man who cares how she physically and emotionally responds to sex. Sex is spiritual to most women! We need a man who will stimulate our lustiness! I have yet to meet a man who really wants to get to know my body and soul sexually. I’ve almost given up. I wonder if men feel the same way about expressing their feelings to a woman without her making fun of him?

I don’t know. What I do know is that a woman’s lusty self needs to be stimulated by a man and a man’s relational self needs to be stimulated by a woman. Then both of them will be more satisfied and turned on.

 

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Time Innovation: Refining the Metaphor: From Clock to Living System


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Attributes of Conscious People


Admission: I complain a lot when I live with a man, which is why I’m single. This way, I can be genuinely positive and healthy. I’ve never met a person, male or female, who pleased me so much that I would want to live with them. I have tried. The men I’ve known always want me to change to please them, which makes me wonder what they wanted from me in the first place. Sex and food, I guess.

By Karen Mehta

Conscious people are completely in the moment when they interact with you, as proved by the quality and thought behind their responses in the conversation, which shows complete engagement. They won’t be thinking of what to say while you are talking. They won’t be on their phones or trying to multi-task, etc. They will be fully engaged, and you can see their gears whirring trying to understand/interpret what you are saying, and when they speak, they add to your contribution and help go deeper and in related directions.The conversation feels collaborative and helpful to both people.

They are generally pretty happy and content people, as evidenced by them leaving people happier than when they first interacted with them and by them rarely whining and complaining. They give more than they take, as this can be felt after the interaction—whether you are uplifted and have gained energy or whether you have been drained/depleted.

They know themselves very well—quirks, strengths, weaknesses, what they need to be happy, etc. so they are self-assured and secure. It feels natural to be relaxed and authentic around such people because of the vibes that they give of—one of security and open-mindedness. You can speak your mind because they rarely take things personally or get offended; they are instead more likely to start a dialog with you to learn about the reasons for your differing point of view.

Their motives and intent are high-minded, i.e., you can tell that they don’t act for personal gain or greed, but rather seem driven to do what they do by a higher power and pure intent. It is easy to trust such people because with them, you clearly know what you are getting and why you are getting it, in a way that is completely consistent with their values. They don’t act in ways that would make them lose respect for themselves because they are always true to their core values.

Common characteristics of people who tend to have a high level of consciousness are as follows

  • Knowledgeable in regard to many different topics.
  • Exude a smooth-affable energy.
  • Independent. Self-sufficient.
  • Intellectual curiosity.

Dec 31, 2022
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