It’s never about what one person needs but whether both of you can benefit from each other without feeling restricted. I’ve always felt restricted by a man. They are very territorial and emotionally needy, alpha or beta.
This is especially true for personal relationships. It has been true for me and now I’m regrouping. This also applies to your Harmonic tone and tribe as well as the tribes around you.
If you are a tone 3 and date a tone 3, that person is either karma or dharma depending on the level of negative and positive transaction. That is the case with all of the tones.
The Tiamat karmic tribes, gender inequity issue, are Red Serpent, White Wizard, White Worldbridger, and Red Skywalker. It swirls a little epic around us. Wears me out. Any males from those tribes are going to encounter negative karma with White Wizard Ixchel women. They have a huge chip on their shoulder toward the men.
There is also doubling up with a person who is the same color of tribe. Red are initiators/leaders, White are refiners, Yellow are ripeners/teachers, and blue are transformers.
Be sure and put your attraction through a filter and don’t just base it on lust. That’s never going to work. It’s like diet or food choices. Just because you’re hungry don’t eat an entire bag of cookies for lunch. Eat a balanced meal or pay a big price later. Sugar is just bad except in very small doses. Lust is loke that.
Synchronicity is the Source of Consciousness 