Ignored or Adored?

I’m referring to how a hetero male treats a hetero female. Ignored is a lot easier on the female if the male is transactional and 99% of them are transactional. They assume we will tolerate being ignored as a human being because we always are, even if some women are in denial about it. They accept crumbs of human treatment from men. The only atrention women get is superficial looks, to attract sex; objectification. Women accept that.

Adored is the other side of that transactional coin. Meaning, he’s HOT for her as long as she holds up her doll appearance, doesn’t get fat or too skinny, and keeps smiling. She could be any age. Women are gorgeous at all ages. Are you nauseated yet? I’m nauseated typing this. LOL😉 No worries. I’m just examining the situation.

But he is not interested in friendship, respect, or working together. His use for the female is sex, hanging beautiful on his arm in public, and keeping a warm home even though he’s never or rarely there. Other things come first, not a relationship or even his kids.

I’m struggling to find a use for men anymore. I can achieve everything I need to do on my own in the world and at home hire a handyman. Women no longer need to compromise and pretend we have a relationship with a man who does not love himself or anyone else. He just sucks the life out of women because we have everything and they have nothing…intrinsically.

Then we should apply our everything to the world and our own lives and take it back. This planet is suffering. Women need to ignore the men and get cracking with our own agenda. They have failed.